Intro: Alright so my main wingman and I have decided on a strategy for the next 2 weeks where our purpose is to develop our “daygame.” We want to become trained to be people who speak with strangers on the fly.

I wanted to share this with all of you guys as it’s been fun actually, plus some of you guys might find it useful to do implement as well!

The exercise is simple: we individually do at least 3 approaches per day with women in public to train the mind to act more impulsively socially, instead of having the stigma that “oh I could approach her but who am I kidding, I don’t do that baller shit.”

Importantly, we want to simply GIVE VALUE and expect nothing but progress-oriented-joy in return that we actually had the balls to do the “approach.” This leads to good vibed convos and nothing too crazy for the mind to rationalize away. Of course we believe in always be closing, but an approach of itself is the Win. Numbers, dates and lays could surely follow. But point being to train our minds to socialize.

—

So today’s report: Girl 1. Cute Asian woman walking towards me with a Starbucks cup while on my way to the gym in the morning. I asked her where she got it from and she gave me directions. Didn’t follow up with banter. Slow start but something 😂

Girl 2. After work: Early 20something walked out of a store, she walked next to me. I pulled out my headphones and asked her what that store typically sold. Spoke with her for a few minutes before it fizzled our.

Girl 3. A 20something moderately attractive girl sat down next to me at a cafe and I asked her if she’d been to the other one cuz the design inside was different. She asked me questions and the interaction was moving forward, but then my friend who I was getting tea with came in and it ended there. I’d made her laugh and teased her so value given 100%.

— Some pointers that help: I unstifle myself by speaking with all service workers I come across by asking them how their days going as well as send a voicemessage to girls I’m currently seeing.

Feels really good to finally be putting myself out there forcibly and spreading good vibes and non-neediness, just learning. Soon I’ll be complimenting more and being bolder, but I’m proud of the day. Daygame fits more into my wellbeing than nightclubs. Plus it’s a higher barrier to entry so girls are much more receptive!

Could write way more, but the points been made.

Cheers! Talk to y’all tomorrow fam!