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[–]INTERLOPER_ETERNAL 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
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[–]pencituant 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah spot on, it was from Tinder and we had been texting for like a month before finally meeting up.
[–]INTERLOPER_ETERNAL 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ifeeluglyallthetime 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls do not want to be rude and say they’re not interested. I had this as well , this could mean one thing she just stop being interested in you without any reasons or you said something for her to be stop being interested.
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[–]pencituant 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
awesome yeah that's a good plan. you're right, if she isn't prioritizing me anymore then she's no longer worth my time despite how well we got along. just knowing why would be nice
[–]shugerdaddy 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Youre the sweetest is code for....youre not at my speed. I need someone whos gonna be aggressive sexually. (I dont mean physically i mean the kind of guy...well you know a guy thats a top seducer)
She asked you a bunch of questions etc and im guessing you gave her straight up answers. You possibly came across a little too available and eager.
She finally matched with someone closernto her level
[–]Putins_bishop 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your mistake (one of them) was texting/snapping too much. Women want a challenge. The girl intuited that if you texted that much after a kiss then she would likely have to deal with tons of your messages after sex.
Would James Bond have done what you did? That's honestly a question you should always be asking yourself when dating. In my own personal opinion, you should aim to become the guy with no social media presence. And don't text her before 5 days have passed. It's all about becoming high value and not obviously breaking out into a dance because you got a little smooch.
And the guy who pointed out that "you're sweet" means you're not sexual enough is spot on.
[–]wootage3597 -3 points-2 points-1 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nope. You let it go. It's always your fault. You may have to some painful introspection, its always something you did. If your game was spot on, that wouldn’t happen. When you are feeling calm, think about what happened... Learn from it, don’t do it next time!
The only "fault" I can think of is the delay in me asking her out to a second date (waited 4-5 days before bringing it up)
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