Pick Up Game Structure

wowzacowza · 2019-02-03T20:50:06+00:00

Todd V related it to Alec Baldwin's famous "always be closing" scene. In that scene, if you're not familiar, Baldwin's character is an accomplished salesman trying to, for lack of a better word, inspire some underperforming salesmen. He breaks down the sales process into what he calls A.I.D.A. and it turns out to relate to game quite well. After all, you are essentially 'closing a deal' in game too.

Here's how A.I.D.A. breaks down for game:

Attention - Get her focused on you. Your opener and introduction should serve to build your value quickly and effectively. This is the first minute or so of the interaction, and at the most basic level you are convincing her to continue the interaction by showing that you are worth having a conversation with. She doesn't have to want to sleep with you just yet, but she should at least not want to walk away from you.

Interest - She now sees you're not a loser and she will at least remain in conversation with you. Now's the time that you focus on building value and intent. If you're using direct method, attention and interest tend to be smashed together because you're basically trying to create intent as quickly and as bluntly as you can. If you're being indirect, interest should be separate from attention. Get her attention first before creating any intent. Make sure to be mindful that you're building comfort in this stage as well.

Decision - If you have built up enough value/comfort and created enough intent, she should start to be thinking to herself that she wants to have sex with you. Now you want to start escalating. You can escalate emotionally or physically (or both), but for most girls and most situations you escalate emotionally first (refer to the two of you as "we" and "us" and make comments/references to the two of you together, create intrigue by pulling away from her, etc) then physically (hold her hand, rub her arm or thigh, hug her, kiss her, etc). But this varies. If she isn't reacting well to one type of escalation, use the other. If she isn't reacting to either type well, go back to the interest stage.

Action - She now should be thinking to herself she wants to have sex with you and you have escalated with her enough that she is aroused and stimulated enough to do it. All that's left is to make it happen. If she has made her decision to have sex with you and she's ready to do it, you should waste as little time making it happen as possible. But, you still must be mindful that she does not want to look slutty. You may have to figure out last minute obstacles to keep her from looking slutty. You also cannot look to eager to make sex happen, or you risk blowing all the hard work you've already put in.

This is a pretty broad overview, but I still wanted to be specific enough to give you a solid starting place.

YesVeryKewl · 2019-02-03T22:53:45+00:00

It depends on the girl. If she’s neutral to you then it’s gonna be the M3 model. If she’s DTF (she’s slutty and/or drunk and/or you’re top tier 1% attractive) then it’ll probably be open -> aggressive flirting-> close

TJSR2611 · 2019-02-03T20:21:35+00:00

"Attraction - comfort - close" would appear to be the most widely recognised.

samuelpua · 2019-02-03T20:29:32+00:00

Here is mine...

Game structure must indicate the points not to miss because If you miss one than it can be fucked up for example If you can open but not hook then it wont work or the same goes for closing If you open and hook but can not numclose or instant date it won t work...so to me

Open

Hook

Numclose or instant date

Text game

Dating game

Pulling

But this is just a model sometimes all can happen at once !

Title	Pick Up Game Structure
Author	bkk374
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	February 3, 2019 7:53 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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