Hi guys (and girls),

I joined this sub about a year. It helped me a lot. While I was good at talking to girls, like just talking, I didn't know how to close the deal most of the time. Since I followed this sub and read it, I tripled the number of girls I've slept with, and am currently in a casual relationship with an "adult entertainer".

I'm not saying this to brag. I know what it sounds like. That was why I waited so long to post on this sub. The reason I bring this up, is to prove that the points on this sub will help your game, and that I have some other stuff to add that hopefully will be useful to at least one other person. Namely, I have one piece of advice, and one "field report." TLDR at bottom

Advice: Make the Most with What You've Got

Play to your strengths when you engage a woman, namely regarding the approach and/or first date. If you're comfortable, she'll be comfortable. For example, I am very good at talking to women when I'm one-on-one. My game relies on me listening to her and then saying something witty back. So, for me, a crowded bar or a raging house party isn't the best place for me to take a girl out. Instead, I usually suggest getting dinner or getting a drink at a local lowkey bar.

Maybe you like art, or know a good bit about history. Take her to an art museum as the first date. Easy one-on-one, no pressure, and will probably give you something good to talk about. Conversely, if you don't know shit about art, and she doesn't either, this would be a horrible idea if you ask me. Despite being "romantic" or whatever, neither of you is going to provide much conversation other than "oh this one is nice" or "cmon I could paint that" and that'll get dry fast. If you've known each other longer, then this wouldn't be as bad because you'll already have rapport, but if you're building a connection, do it somewhere where you can focus on her, not the environment.

One HUGE piece I have advice that tacks on this. Hook ups are like real estate: location location location. It's infinitely easier to bring her back to your place, if the date was at an ice cream shop or bar that's like two blocks from your house. I can say for sure that at least two of my hookups recently came from the fact that we were so close to my house that she said "ok let's go." From there, it's up to you to close. And if she's at your place, that's probably your answer.

Field Report: New Skill Unlocked

Now I have to say that I have a unique "skill," trait, whatever you'd call it that really, really helps me approach girls.

When girls first meet me, they almost invariably think that I'm gay

Now how in the fuck could that possibly help me? The girl I want, thinks that I'm into dudes? And believe me, I try to be pretty clear that I'm straight. I'll mention an ex-gf or something. Doesn't matter. That sounds like a pick-up death sentence.

Well, I've thought about it a lot for the past six months and I think I've realized why it works. Since I seem gay, girls are welcoming to my approach. It's that easy. They don't think I'm some sleazy dude that just wants to hit on her. We can talk, I give her the old razzle-dazzle, I get her number, or I can escalate. By then, she's comfortable, I'm comfortable, and I can make a move. It's probably a surprise, to be sure, but a welcome one. From there, it goes however far she wants it to go.

How does this translate to someone who doesn't have this same superpower? Well, I ask girls why they think I'm gay and it's usually 1) that I dress decently 2) the way I hold myself and 3) my voice. Lol can't change one of those, but the other two are actually things I've picked up from this sub. I learned to do my hair, how to use body language that exudes confidence, how to dress (ehh, I knew how to dress before). While that made me seem gay, it also made me appealing when I approached her.

So yeah, the advice on this sub can actually really really really improve your game. Sorry if I sound like a cocky asshole. It's hard to talk about hook-ups and pick-ups and not come off as braggy. Hope it works out for my boys out there!

TLDR: 1) when you take a girl out or want to pick her up, do it in a style that you feel comfortable in. If you're comfortable, she's comfortable. 2) Girls think I'm gay, lets me pick them up super easily. But if you just dress nice and behave with confidence, they'll think you're gay and sleep with you too! This sub helps.