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Definitely go! Take it as a chance to understand the dynamic of her social circle. Make a good impression on her friend! Keep things platonic and focus on getting to know her as a person :) You’ll have chances for one-on-one time in the future, especially if you do well in this situation.
/r/seduction20/12/17 11:29 PM
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Yup!
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:03 PM
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I mean, I know what I’m doing. Give me a wig, a tight dress, and some alcohol. I’ll be the best guide you’ve ever had.
/r/seduction20/12/17 06:43 PM
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Then it’s time to play the waiting game. Also called playing hard to get, or the “pull away method.” You’ve already demonstrated that you’re willing to put in effort into developing something more meaningful between the two of you. If this girl is worth your time, she’s gonna put in effort herself. This has gotta be a 50/50 thing. You can’t be the one putting in all the effort, it can definitely come off as needy. But like you said, she is incredibly busy, and that’s just where she is in life ri…
/r/seduction20/12/17 06:37 PM
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I’m in the same boat, but in my case it’s as simple as it sounds, she’s busy with work. You might be interpreting her actions correctly, or maybe you’re overthinking it. You did say she had to flake once because of work, maybe she’s telling the truth? I’m not sure if you’re familiar with her day to day schedule, but some chicas are actually just busy people. Sucks for logistics, but damn, lemme tell you amigo, when I meet a girl with her own fulfilling, busy life, but she still makes time for me…
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:43 AM
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I wasn’t trying to say that my advice would only apply to you if you were in a strictly exclusive relationship. She has probably lost interest because the only interaction she’s having with you is text messaging (as you’ve described it). Do you interact digitally with her in any other way? Phone calls at least? My amigo, it’s about to be 2018, gotta take advantage of the resources available to you!
/r/seduction20/12/17 07:25 AM
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If the direction of this relationship goes where you want it to, it’s going to be a long distance thing. The most practical and applicable advice I can give you: Start videochatting. Facetime, Skype, Google Hangouts, whatever. I’ve been in several LDR’s and video chatting is so critical. It’s not as good as being together in person obviously, but it definitely beats trying to sustain emotions over just texting. Get on Snapchat too.
/r/seduction20/12/17 12:50 AM
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"she keen", lmaooo I like that
/r/seduction19/12/17 03:57 PM
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My amigo, we're on the same wavelength.
/r/seduction19/12/17 01:52 AM
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Yup, this right here ^ Ask her out on a date and actually get to know her.
/r/seduction18/12/17 06:20 AM
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You landed yourself in a tough situation. Hanging out sober and solo with a group of random girls you just met? If they take control of the conversation and start talking about “oh my god becky, last week chad kissed britney,” and you can’t relate or aren’t relevant to the topic, you’re dead fish mate. You’ve got a short period of time to take control of the conversation topic, other wise you’re trapped in the shadow realm of eating/fucking with your phone in silence.
/r/seduction18/12/17 06:16 AM
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What’s the age demographic of the girls you’ve been interacting with? 18-22? College aged? A lot of college girls can be pretty boring and cookiecutter. Financially dependent on parents, life is ruled by school, have not developed their individuality yet. If you go to a big enough school, there are definitely going to be a few rare catches in that age range. But things are going to change a lot once you hit 22-24+
/r/seduction18/12/17 06:10 AM
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To address the problems related to logistics: Dunno how cool your dad is, but you not having your own place to bring home these damsels is potentially hampering your game. If your dad is controlling, game over. If you’re dad’s hot shit, he may not even be a factor. Working 2nd shift. Even if the girls were available at your workplace, I’d treat it as a mine field. Don’t shit where you eat. Things get awkward between you and a coworker? Oh...well... see ya tomorrow Beth. Hate going out to bars an…
/r/seduction18/12/17 06:02 AM
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If I’m hanging out with a dude I just met, I’d give him the eyes, then lead his gaze toward her direction. If he was a true amigo, he’d completely understand the situation if this damsel was as fine as you are saying she was. If this dude was someone that’d get upset over the situation, he was not a true amigo. I personally like to enjoy nicotine. When I’m out reveling in public, I’ve usually got my little vape and a pack of cigs/light on me. I’d ask her what she’s smoking and if she’d be down t…
/r/seduction18/12/17 05:46 AM
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The concept you’re describing is very relatable. Where is the boundary between effort and reward? What is the effort threshold? It’s a case-by-case scenario, really. The way your post is worded, it seems like you’re asking what I’d do personally, so ymmv. This is the assumption for what I’m about to write: “She will agree to spend time with you but won’t initiate anything.” In other words, she agrees to spend one-on-one time with me. In most scenarios, I’d want to eventually establish whether sh…
/r/seduction18/12/17 05:30 AM
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The simple fact that she's a coworker changes the game up quite a bit. When the dudes on here are going out and playing the game, its typically on strangers they may not see again, and most are going to experience some degree of failure. I get turned down more often than not, and when I do get turned down, it's pretty uncomfortable, but that's okay! Why is that okay? You become better at being comfortable in uncomfortable situations. The ultimate goal is to not really be affected or care about u…
/r/seduction18/12/17 03:06 AM
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This is just one strategy, but one that I've used and has been successful for me! So we're assuming that the environment is one where it might be a little out of place being approached. A shop, train, the gym, a library, a coffeehouse. If you came out of nowhere at one of these locations and immediately started laying your game on thick, it'd definitely be easy for your average joe to come off as desperate or creepy. So what I do is focus my attention on something else in the environment. Someth…
/r/seduction18/12/17 02:35 AM
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Yeah! I totally get oneitis every once in awhile even though I've been on many dates with many girls and think that I'm experienced. You start to think that you're in control of your emotions, and then some girl unlike any you've met before appears out of nowhere and has you on your knees again hahaha. Normally when I crush on a girl (but don't get oneitis over), and things don't work out, it's really easy to just delve into my hobbies to forget about her. When I get oneitis over a girl, and thi…
/r/seduction17/12/17 10:37 PM
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I'd say that's beating around the bush. You shouldn't be wishy washy, otherwise she'll start getting wishy washy. Your motives need to be clear!
/r/seduction17/12/17 10:30 PM
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I've initiated plenty of dates over social media. Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, Tinder. Turned out fine. Some of them became my girlfriends. Initiating/contacting over an online medium is so casual and easy to do. If you don't want to initiate while she's with friends, or can't find her in a one-on-one situation, then hit her up online, ain't nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:54 AM
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Nah, I'd say you've got it backwards. A LARGE percentage of women find it harder to say yes in that situation lol. Sure, ideally a woman you decide to date wouldn't have this characteristic. But many women are strongly tied to their social circles, and that ain't a bad thing. A girl can have many positive traits that more than make up for her giving in to the social pressure of her social circle.
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:51 AM
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To answer your questions explicitly, here are some indicators that alert the fact you're in the friiieeendzone: If she says: "Omg wbyrd2, Brad is such an asshole, but I still love him because that dick bomb." "Uhg, wbyrd2, I'm so poor. Can you buy me to chipotle? <3 You're such a good friend, you wouldn't let me starve right? Also, I need some alcohol for this party I'm going to <3." "You're such a good friend wbyrd2. In fact, you're like a brother to me." All joking aside, what you could really…
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:46 AM
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Ignore them? Don't swipe them? It's not a hard thing to do man! Online dating/game does take at least SOME work, and that includes sifting through girls you aren't interested in lol.
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:38 AM
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This is a brilliant response! Let me try and add on! If all we're talking about is sexual/physical attraction, keep in mind that you two have fucked ONCE. Not sure if you've been in relationships before, but in my experience, the first time is never all too amazing, and the best sex I've had in my life is in relationships where BOTH the physical AND emotional attraction is strong. So what I'm saying is that there is plenty of room in your scenario/situation to develop sexual/physical attraction …
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:34 AM
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You've got a classic case of "oneitis." It's in your title. You haven't taken her out on a date. You haven't initiated any sort of physical interaction (unless this just wasn't written in your post). You haven't established mutual physical/sexual attraction. These are some first priority objectives you need to accomplish WAY before you can start thinking, "She may be the one..." Have you been in relationship before? It can COMPLETELY change your opinion of a girl. It has for EVERY girl I've ever…
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:23 AM
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Time to find out if she is physically/sexually attracted to you! Lead her into a situation where you're physically one-on-one. Then: Kino kino kino (physical escalation) and her reactions to them. You need to initiate PHYSICAL interactions if you haven't already. But you've gotta escalate these physical interactions in steps. Like don't go straight for a kiss too quickly. Start off light. Then analyze her reactions to these very light physical interactions. Were they positive reactions? Were the…
/r/seduction15/12/17 07:56 AM
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HAHAHA! I've never had a girl say that to me! Just imagining that, oh my god. "The whole time I thought you were gay, RIGHT UP until RIGHT before you initiated sex and fucked me." LMAO. Fucking legendary man!
/r/seduction15/12/17 07:50 AM
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Scenario 1: Let's assume that you're pretty sure she is physically/sexually attracted to you. You're going to have to invite yourself over to her place verbally and explicitly. It is honestly a tougher situation than what is ideal, but it's been done plenty of times! Now it's going to be a game of how you can do that smoothly without coming off as rude/needy/thirsty. Regardless of what you say, it is 90% likely that if you verbally/explicitly invite yourself over to her place that she is going t…
/r/seduction15/12/17 07:44 AM
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Depends on how far you've gotten with her. Have you met her in person before? Have you gone on any dates? Have you fucked already? Give me more details and I can give you more advice.
/r/seduction15/12/17 01:37 AM
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I'd forget about it unless you were bringing a longtime girlfriend home. If you've gotta sneak her into your house, that could be kind of unattractive depending on how old you are. Learn how to get to their place instead!
/r/seduction15/12/17 01:11 AM
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completely depends on your relatives. Got strict Asian parents like mine? They wouldn't let me bring a girl home unless I was about to marry her. Got cool white parents like my ex? They had never met me before inviting me to stay with their daughter at their home in NY for a week.
/r/seduction15/12/17 12:32 AM
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Hell yeah, play that gay card. I've got a similar style. I'm very in touch with my feminine side even though I'm completely straight. Some stereotypically feminine/gay things about me: I love male fashion, I'm a dancer, and have an ear/nose piercing. I'm open about my emotions, and allow myself to get vulnerable. Like you said, it makes girls more comfortable around you! And lets you work on the first priority, getting to know them as a person. I do try to balance it out with stereotypical mascu…
/r/seduction15/12/17 12:25 AM
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It definitely does. Most girls would be turned off, to some extent, by a guy with a voice higher than theirs. I definitely wish my voice was deeper. Its a very masculine trait.
/r/seduction15/12/17 12:13 AM
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Kino kino kino (physical escalation) and her reactions to them. So it's a coffee date, right? Best case scenario is to find somewhere cozy and warm. Dimly lit is nice too. Lots of coffee spots have couches. Do your research on a solid location. It might be tough physically escalating while sitting across the table from each other, so you gotta find opportunities, like couch seating. But you've gotta escalate in steps. Like don't go straight for a kiss too quickly. Start off light. After a few po…
/r/seduction14/12/17 11:25 PM
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