I posted last week about the super attractive liquor store gal and how I fumbled it. Since then and after reading some of the comments and other posts in here I’ve taken a different approach. Just start conversations with women while I’m out and about anywhere. The gas station, the store ect if they are hot, not or even older.

Don’t start the conversation and have the intent in my mind to get their number, simply say hi. Compliment them on something they’re wearing, you get the idea and then go on about my day. No harm no foul!

Example

I went to the pharmacy the other night to grab some meds, I had to use the drive thru. Instead of just saying hi grabbing my stuff and leaving. I said hi how are you, how is your day? She said I’m great it’s been busy and I’m hanging in there. Then she saw my truck was wet (I just washed it) uh is it raining out there? Nope just washed it. She it looks nice I need to wash my car! Oh yea what do you drive? I drive x (I forgot what) but I said those are nice! She chuckled and said thanks! That was about it as she finished my transaction and I told her I hope she has a awesome weekend!

This chic was cute but not a bombshell, that’s really irrelevant in my mindset right now FYI. I’ve just been working on the flow of conversation and it’s going great. I probably could have asked for her number since things were flowing good but I decided not too since I’m progressing here.

End of the day and the point of this post? It’s been boosting my confidence, these little interactions I’ve been having I’ve received zero backlash. Some have seemed flattered by the praises or simple compliments. It’s really no different than approaching another dude in Home Depot and saying hey have you tried this drill before?

If you’ve struggled like I have fellas just put your purse down like I did. Next week I’ll start going after numbers!