So I have invited girls out to eat a couple times but i dont really mention it as a date. For some reason, the girls back out last second and this has happened to me a couple times. I usually just use it to meet up, i could care less if it is an actual date but, am I doing something wrong? Is going to a restaurant to formal? I fear that girls misinterpret my intentions as it is just to get to know them and by no means am I expecting anything by the end of the night. (I also know I am good looking so it has to be something else.)