Hey guys,

I need some tips to improve my game with girls. I have been using mostly Tinder to get a date and sometimes ends with sex/relationship, but my success rate is not higher!

I don't have problems texting a girl and getting conversations is easy for me, even the second step with the date is easy to follow, but when we go on a first date it goes usually with this plan: 1. Always in the evening, because I think it's more romantic and it's easier to go to drink something with alcohol(this helps to feel more relaxed and having a good time) somewhere in the city center. 2. Try to have a good conversation, talking some jokes from time to time to see that the girl can laugh and enjoy my company, I avoid talking too much for myself. I'm more interested in to ask her some things to know her better. Usually, I don't set a time for the first date, but approximately around an hour at a cocktail bar is okay, afterwards, I ask the girl if she wants to go for a walk. If she wants to hang around I try to take her hand and if she doesn't mind about it often I get to the kiss and ending the date.

This plan doesn't work, because when I go to dates with girls most of them are telling me "I've had such a great time with you, but I didn't feel chemistry between us or something similar. I don't know what I am doing wrong. Should I go only for a short date only and say something in the end "I've had a great time with you, let's keep in touch and think about if we want to go for a second date" or something like this.

I really don't know what I am doing wrong. Feel free to comment and give some tips for first dates and how to build a sexual attraction and what are you doing on first dates.