What's up seddit. So I've come to the conclusion that I am more after dating as opposed to random hookups after being single for about a year. The problem is, although I have now managed to get tons of 1st dates, I still struggle to get 2nd dates. I would say about 80% of my dates come from online dating, and about 50% of my K-close+ come from in-person.

However, I have noticed that a lot of the Tinder girls I meet are a shot above the rest of them (surprisingly. I am very picky and Tinder helps with expanding the circle, although it mostly feels like I'm panning for gold). The dates themselves seem to go rather well from my perspective, however more often than not I cannot seem to convert into a 2nd date - even when I bring up future plans for us in the date. I am usually able to at least make-out with the girls that I go out on dates with, however clearly I am doing something wrong. What do you all think I need to fix in order to get a 2nd date, or general tips for everyone?