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1

You may be asexual, or there could be something of your past that’s making you afraid of being open sexually.
/r/seduction26/11/19 09:21 PM
2

Definitely invest into other women, and becareful with the “If she was really __, she would’ve __” as that blanket philosophy doesn’t apply on everyone since we dont know how they think and their life circumstance. For example I’ve been on like 6 dates with a woman currently, and in the beginning she was super hesitant to go on a date because she’s mega shy and uncomfortable. If I took that as uninterested, I wouldn’t be dating her. Same with a girl I dated for half a year who was SUUPER always …
/r/seduction23/11/19 04:57 PM
2

You didn’t fail, you just need to take it slower than others. You went to an event by yourself? If so? great job
/r/seduction23/11/19 04:28 PM
2

It’s not dead. Good sign is she wants to continue “your game.” Keep developing rapport then at some point ask her out again. If she does it again, bounce.
/r/seduction23/11/19 04:25 PM
2

Do more cardio/muscular endurance exercise
/r/seduction16/11/19 06:31 PM
3

Hangout with girls you’re not attracted to.
/r/seduction16/11/19 05:47 PM
1

I'm going to give you some tough love here because you're not alone -- some of us, like me, also have behavioral health challenges. As mentioned, you follow the same dating advice that everyone else has to follow that's effective for you. And what do you have to do different that some may not? Not use behavioral health an excuse to make the necessary decisions to get and keep a girl. For example, if you're not approaching women because of "depression" -- then you're just letting life live itself…
/r/seduction16/11/19 12:01 AM
4

Why not both?
/r/seduction12/11/19 08:02 PM
67

Maybe she broke up with her boyfriend and is on the prowl
/r/seduction11/11/19 10:41 PM
2

Agreed, while there may be outliers, it can do the reverse of building confidence and increase anxiety. That doesn’t guarantee it’ll do the reverse — I’m more talkative and lively when I have caffeine which helps me personally, so I’d test it out for yourself and see OP.
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:25 PM
1

What’s your source on these statistics?
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:21 AM
2

Say no?
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:20 PM
3

So is looking down on others, judgemental/disrespectful to strangers.
/r/seduction06/11/19 05:19 PM
1

Pretty much. You can attempt to make it more obvious to her you’re attempting to date her. And I think a lot of us guys on here can say: good luck with those odds. And hey, if you prefer her for intimacy, then doesn’t hurt to try. It CAN happen, it’s just very uncommon. A lot of us have been where you’re at, which is why I can confidently say she likely sees you as a friend.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:46 AM
5

You’ve been friends for about a year. She considers you a friend.
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:54 AM
7

I am dying? Speak for yourself .... /s Yeah the last thing we want on our death beds is a list of regrets.
/r/seduction04/11/19 09:03 PM
4

She pecked your cheek and asked you to follow up. You’re in buddy. Kiss her next time, she gave you the green light
/r/seduction03/11/19 05:41 AM
1

damn that was quick, congrats?
/r/seduction01/11/19 11:29 PM
1

I’ll have one again. I’m almost bankrupt and I dont want it to be an excuse to not date and stuff
/r/seduction31/10/19 11:38 PM
3

Men asking this or women? If its men they’re just reflecting their insecurities onto you
/r/seduction31/10/19 11:05 PM
2

Well howd that work for you today?
/r/seduction30/10/19 09:58 PM
7

What’s going to be different tomorrow?
/r/seduction30/10/19 12:45 PM
1

Its like getting to know a new potential friend you recently met. Except they’re a girl and you want to have sex with them as well.
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:45 AM
2

By talking to her about it, and how is she your gf after 1 month?
/r/seduction28/10/19 02:39 AM
1

Just smile a lot, be very touchy and in his personal space. If he doesnt get the hint he’s either not interested, shy, or needs something more direct.
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:23 PM
20

From my experience, having a steady partner taught me a lot about sex as we were able to give each other feedback on what we liked and disliked. This taught me a lot about pleasing the female body. Once we broke up, my hookup sex has been incredible because I learned so much from the steady lady. Before I was in your shoes, where my sex was mixed and honestly I started having anxiety during sex cause the experiences have been so mixed. Now I look forward to sex, with anyone.
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:11 PM
1

Its tough to take a girl home from the clubs since they go with each other in packs. Have you tried going for their numbers?
/r/seduction27/10/19 04:24 PM
2

First of all, I’m in my 30s so I don’t remember much on what those events looked like. However if I was to do them again, I’d: 1) Learn how to dance. If the dance is coming up too soon, learn for next time if there is a next time. Most people aren’t expert dancers, you shouldnt have to learn much minus just basic stuff you can use all the time 2) Be social — I doubt everyone is dancing at all times so connect with others and have fun with conversation. Focus on them, and helping them have a good…
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:54 PM
38

At least it ended in sex
/r/seduction26/10/19 03:07 PM
1

They can be helpful for those who don't get laid as much as they'd like, and I'd argue they can be helpful for those who just like having sex with beautiful women . I didn't need to have sex with the women I paid for, I chose to have sex with them because they were hot as hell, and why waste my energy/emotions with gaming when I could just speed up the process? It's like food -- I can do all the work of killing the cow, processing the meat, etc. to create a hamburger, or I can just buy it. A lot…
/r/seduction25/10/19 06:10 PM
1

I'll be honest -- women willing to take sex for transactions is pretty damn nice. I don't go for women who do it normally, I go for the ones who are like, "Well shit, I need money ... fuck it." I can understand Tiger Wood's predicament with all the money he has, I'd be addicted too.
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:50 PM
1

So what if they’re disappointed? You expect all dates to leave with them in instant love with you? You must be confident
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:11 PM
2

Treat them like anyone else, that’s how you treat them. Don’t put anyone on a pedestal. I’ve dated women in leadership positions, and they can be treated like shy women — the “leader” women may be easier to talk to honestly.
/r/seduction25/10/19 01:47 PM
1

I know you never had a girlfriend so it sounds exciting that there’s a possibility you can end that streak sooner than later — don’t do it. The first girl that I asked to be my gf, I asked within 2 months of dating just to give me a checkmark of having a gf. It can take more than 2 months to really know someone — I learned we were totally different people, and after 2 months I stopped being attracted to her. It was embarassing to break up with her cause everyone saw we were together, and then su…
/r/seduction25/10/19 01:37 PM
3

Got it. Reason that I ask is I personally realized that a lot of my dates didn't turn into second dates because, well, I wasn't fully giving it my all. I was just going with the flow versus putting in real effort for them to have an enjoyable time. It was just another date, going through the motions.
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:00 PM
9

Hell yeah brother!! Now get rejected 10 more times! Way to grow some balls and go after it versus waiting and hoping it all falls into your lap.
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:46 PM
2

When you date women, are you thinking more about yourself and overanalyzing, or are you more concentrated on them with making sure they feel connected and are having a good time?
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:44 PM
2

You waited a long time — hopefully the energy is still there man.
/r/seduction23/10/19 07:47 PM
1

I find it normal that most people don’t initiate conversations and greetings. You’ll have to be assertive with creating relationships, it’s — from my experience — how life works for a lot of people. Obviously there’s exceptions. For example, I didn’t put effort in creating my high school friends, situations is what forced us to bond. Situations such as seeing the same people over and over and over again and having a space that encourages communication.
/r/seduction23/10/19 07:37 PM
2

No, it’s suuuuper obvious to an American lol. Hardly anyone here talks like the messages you shared. I couldn’t tell if they were real.
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:23 PM
3

Yeah it reads like she wants you over and she may not want to put in the work of coming to you town. Doesnt hurt to try to make it easier for her by coming to her town
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:42 PM
10

Is this how folks talk to each other in the EU? I want someone to say “Fancy fucking me this week.” Amazing
/r/seduction22/10/19 02:13 PM
3

Ask him to stop and that it bothers you. If he does it again, drop him. You don’t seem to be going for long-term with these ladies so it may seem fair game to him
/r/seduction21/10/19 01:36 AM
5

A frat can make a difference with greater exposure to women, did for me. You’ll still have to game, which I was weak at. (Made out with plenty of women at least). And I joined a frat last semester of my college years so its not “too late” — join while you’re young OP.
/r/seduction20/10/19 05:20 AM
1

Helluva night! Damn. Good work. While being single most of adult life may not feel good, you wouldnt have experienced that (unless you were THAT guy) if you was married haha
/r/seduction19/10/19 02:49 AM
1

Speaking of wood
/r/seduction17/10/19 07:05 PM
1

Mention something contextually common with both of you to start the conversation. For example, in a coffee shop: “Hey, I’m looking to try something new, whatcha got?”. Or yours is simple: “I see you all the time and I’ve never introduced myself.” Introduce yourself formally, ask for her name. Then if you have a desire to date her, express that you find her attractive and see if she’s down to connect with you sometime. And there’s your template.
/r/seduction16/10/19 02:54 AM
4

Always in person. And she’s interested in you so its a free catch
/r/seduction16/10/19 02:03 AM
1

Treat her like a gentleman, make her laugh, share things about yourself so she feels safe to share, show that you’re listening.
/r/seduction14/10/19 04:40 PM
1

Why would it not be okay?
/r/seduction13/10/19 07:47 PM
2

If thats the case, you’ll probably need to be more direct with him.
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:24 AM
2

You’re a girl, just be playful with him and see how he responds back. If he seems to like it you’re probably in.
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:21 AM
1

Not sure what to learn. Any insight? I said: “good question. does me puttin up with you make me crazy? 😉”
/r/seduction12/10/19 08:20 PM
1

lmao well i already fucked it up. thanks guys
/r/seduction12/10/19 07:50 PM
2

Yup, this is a universal issue that has to be expected.
/r/seduction10/10/19 09:35 PM
2

Guess you’ll find out. You’re choosing to ignore the recommendations.
/r/seduction10/10/19 03:00 PM
2

You really don’t want to learn this the hard way. Unless you prefer not having women in your life long.
/r/seduction10/10/19 02:49 PM
3

Date her and make sure she has intentions and a plan to break up with her bf if it bothers you. And it should bother you cause you see that she’d potentially cheat on you if you were together.
/r/seduction10/10/19 02:11 PM
1

1 date of month from Tinder would be amazing. Mine is like 1-2 a quarter.
/r/seduction10/10/19 03:46 AM
1

Its a turn off if shes that open about it. I dont mind if she does it cause she likes dancing — as long as I’m invited to dance with her moving forward
/r/seduction10/10/19 03:21 AM
1

There is no right or wrong answer. It’s always a gamble. Some women don’t mind normal, and some hate it — and you’ll never know. Personally I just play it safe, and I still get dates. Not a lot of dates but hey, they happen.
/r/seduction10/10/19 03:15 AM
1

It's not too late. I joined literally the last semester of my senior year. One of the best decisions I've ever made in college. Boosted up my confidence game with women tremendously (especially hotter women). And you of course don't have to join a frat for this -- it just helped push me.
/r/seduction09/10/19 08:33 PM
1

Yeah, definitely don’t expect change overnight. Personally I’d just start small. Focusing on doing 1 thing that you’re confident you can do that can get you started. Like asking a hot girl in your class a school related question, and then maybe try to add 1 personal question with it during the discussion or something since you’re already good with non-personal stuff. And have you thought about joining a fraternity? That helped me a lotttt with women.
/r/seduction09/10/19 07:30 PM
1

Quit thinking about yourself so much and think about them. Sounds harsh, it’s what slowed me down which is why I’m sharing. All I was thinking about is how I come across, if I say the right things, should I have got a haircut, etc. Instead, think about how you can help them have a better day, have a laugh or smile, have them excited for something new in life, etc. Make it about them — everyone in this world is walking around with stress and fears, same with 9/10 women who seem like they have it …
/r/seduction09/10/19 06:39 PM
2

Just focus on having a good time, finding common ground between you two, and helping HER be comfortable. She’ll be nervous too. If you think too much about all the things you “should” be doing you’ll probably get too into your head and not do anything. Now we do have to eventually get flirty so maybe just focus on complimenting her — for me that’s an easy way to flirt. Coming from someone who use to be super anxious during dates. Just be chill, relax. You’ll perform a lot better if you’re relaxe…
/r/seduction09/10/19 02:52 AM
1

Just meet up and check her ID, no biggie. Legal is legal
/r/seduction09/10/19 02:12 AM
10

Only if you choose for it to be.
/r/seduction08/10/19 12:46 AM
1

Hell no.
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:48 PM
1

Where did this rule come from
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:06 PM
4

Hey it happens. Sometimes we just need some pussy.
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:05 PM
1

100K is not that many? Well damn, I may as wel delete my insta
/r/seduction07/10/19 06:10 PM
2

I date, and I’m a trainer and fit. If I want to eat healthy, I eat healthy. It sounds like you’re not willing to set boundaries with your women and I bet it shows up in more places than the restaurant. If you don’t want to be unhealthy, then just don’t do it. You can still have them having a good time, unless you’re using the food and drinks to make up for your shortcomings.
/r/seduction06/10/19 05:27 PM
5

How’s using that as an excuse been working for you?
/r/seduction06/10/19 04:05 PM
2

With there being over a billion human beings on this planet, absolutely.
/r/seduction05/10/19 08:20 AM
26

I realized that the reason I wasn’t getting women was because I wasn’t trying. It was my fault the entire time. Not because of my race, my height, my face, etc. Those were just excuses for my pussy behaviors of not approaching.
/r/seduction04/10/19 02:21 PM
1

Great job asking on here before you embarrass yourself. Hope you’re not following through with that letter
/r/seduction04/10/19 02:23 AM
1

You said you never asked a girl out in your life, and seduction isn’t real. How do you know if you’ve never tried?
/r/seduction03/10/19 01:49 PM
18

I find it easier to be more assertive/aggressive when I havent nutted in awhile. Is it needed? No. However I get the benefits so I intentionally try not to nut several days before big nights or dates when possible. I’m not going to 100% abstain though, that lifestyle is not for me.
/r/seduction03/10/19 04:04 AM
1

Probably
/r/seduction02/10/19 01:37 PM
2

Shouldve asked what made her want to know
/r/seduction01/10/19 08:24 PM
2

You’re done dude. She already friend zoned you with the I’d like to be your friend. Ontop of reading your story, I’m not seeing the chemistry.
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:54 AM
2

This. Or have a shorter date in between.
/r/seduction30/09/19 06:57 PM
1

Maybe. May depend on where you’re from. I rarely match with nonwhite women as where I’m from is 95% white (it feels like). With you in Chicago, makes sense you see more diversity.
/r/seduction30/09/19 05:39 PM
1

You know this sub is mostly guys?
/r/seduction28/09/19 08:19 PM
1

How were you led on? I feel like this only happens if there’s unmet expectations and poor communication.
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:32 PM
1

Are you posting this to brag or legit want an answer?
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:15 PM
21

I wouldve washed my hands, whats the big deal?
/r/seduction27/09/19 10:10 PM
16

I know how you feel, I’ve been crippled with anxiety on approaching strangers. I’ve learned that I have to start small. I’m just complimenting people right now, just to gain COMFORT in initiating anything with people. From there, I can go into conversations, then getting numbers and stuff
/r/seduction27/09/19 06:17 PM
0

If you want to try keep your girlfriend AND enjoy your relationship, you need to give her the ultimatum about talking about shit like her ex. You have to have a big conversation with her — and her commitment to you will be shown big time by how she proceeds post convo. If she doesnt seem like she wants to change, leave the relationship. If she does, awesome. Keep her accountable to that as its a deal breaker to you. If its not it should be.
/r/seduction27/09/19 02:33 AM
1

Hey man, I know the energy is hot. Don’t let it cloud your judgement. Spending hardly any time with her isnt enough information for if shes right for you. If you want a long-term relationship, put in the work to keep her interested, AND continue dating around. You’ll be a depressed mess if she ghosts on you. I been there, she’s worthy so far of attention, AND you’ll keep dating cause she hasn’t made true commitment to you yet
/r/seduction27/09/19 02:26 AM
1

Just do lots of foreplay before sex, then go for the sex. If you're afraid you won't last long, there's creams that'll numb your dick that has worked wonders for my pre-mature ejaculation problem. If you're doing something with her and you're unsure if she likes it, ask her if it feels good. If it feels good keep doing it, if it doesn't feel good change it up. There's your guide to great sex.
/r/seduction27/09/19 02:19 AM
1

Good news, just because you don’t think you’re good looking doesnt mean everyone doesnt. Theres over a billion people on this planet, there’s girls that like you. So yes, if you want a relationship, try seduction. If you don’t want one, then go about life as normal — which is probably depressed if your self worth is as low as youre making it seem.
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:06 AM
3

Next time point things out to people like that. You’ll have closer bonds, know the answers to what you’re asking (generally), and they’ll be more mindful of how they act around you. “I don’t get it — you were super bubbly with me earlier, and now you seem annoyed by me. What’s going on?”
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:52 PM
1

If you’re copying and pasting your “game” to all women, yeah its going to work on some, and its not going to work on others. If you want to get the ones your games not working on, you’re going to want to change your approach. No need to change “you.” Just change approach to whats more effective for those individuals
/r/seduction25/09/19 09:25 PM
1

I go from no touch to kissing all the time, it’s not the end of the world. While its “effective practice” to touch before kissing, theres no right or wrong.
/r/seduction25/09/19 08:46 PM
1

Pull back. You will lose her if you do not. I was in a similar relationship. The closeness began to push her away. You mentioning your interests in her so early may have done the same. She probably has a fear of commitment as someone else mentioned. And she’s losing interest in you if she’s active on Bumble still. Big red flags. Don’t oneitis her — date around and have her to the side if you still like her. I was in this exact same relationship and I wish I left earlier. Dated her for 6 months a…
/r/seduction25/09/19 07:40 PM
1

Love porn. 1-2 times a week
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:52 AM
5

There’s a moment of high sexual energy, someone invites the other to the other’s place, sex happens, then communication ceases. For me, this happened either from college parties/connections or from Tinder/Bumble.
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:14 AM
1

Since youre obv looking for feedback, here’s mine. I was very socially anxious as well for years. And I learned that most people are afraid to connect with other people equally, and most people also deal with a lot of shit in their lives. Instead of thinking so much about how you’re acting, behaving, etc. Think only about them. How can you add a smile to their day? Even if its just 1 compliment? Don’t think about yourself so much, and you may find this to be easier. Be loving. I know this sounds…
/r/seduction25/09/19 03:11 AM
2

I feel like you have some self-worth challenges. So what if she talked about a crush on another guy? If you’re going to not talk to someone after 2 weeks over something like that, it makes me feel like you commonly are concerned with how others view you. I would’ve treated her kindly and normally after rejection, and nothing more. You asked her out, that’s a win by itself. And just FYI, I’ve been in those shoes since early age and just realized how my low self worth (which is WAY higher now) was…
/r/seduction24/09/19 09:52 PM
3

Definitely— I mean the odds are high for disappointment since you havent met in person till the date, so what I do is as much background research as possible (instagram, facebook, etc) to reduce the odds. Also I try not to date those where I feel “Ehh sure I guess I’d date you” to. Those are the ones that typically disappoint me.
/r/seduction24/09/19 06:32 PM
1

Yeah, it’s kind of a fucked up story and being in the right place at the right time. These girls are roommates and bffs and they’re having major financial struggles. They’re willing to do anything. This is all new to them so while not full escorts, I did pay. Also they have kinks to be cam models and they’re bisexual. Literally all the perfect ingredients where if any item was missing not sure if it wouldve happened. Met one of them on Bumble looking for a “sugar daddy.” I was helping her out as…
/r/seduction24/09/19 02:46 PM
2

Yeah, it’s kind of a fucked up story and being in the right place at the right time. These girls are roommates and bffs and they’re having major financial struggles. They’re willing to do anything. This is all new to them so while not full escorts, I did pay. Also they have kinks to be cam models and they’re bisexual. Literally all the perfect ingredients where if any item was missing not sure if it wouldve happened. Met one of them on Bumble looking for a “sugar daddy.” I was helping her out as…
/r/seduction24/09/19 01:59 PM
1

Can you walk us through what any of the conversations looked like from 1-2 flakes? In regards to how you met them, the initial conversation, some of the middle and the close? More details the better. From reading this, I have a feeling some women are setting up a date with you just to get you to go away. When you are racking up a ton of flakes, I start to wonder if it’s more you versus them.
/r/seduction20/09/19 09:08 PM
1

Yeah, wear protection and have fun!
/r/seduction20/09/19 08:02 PM
2

why do i want her to call me an asshole
/r/seduction20/09/19 04:03 AM
2

no, why would i
/r/seduction06/09/19 02:31 PM
1

You leave her alone? She said she’s not into you.
/r/seduction05/09/19 05:25 PM
-3

It’s going to be tough to get a relationship when you don’t take ownership with where you’re at versus blaming mental illness.
/r/seduction03/09/19 01:08 PM
6

Make the sex an 11 out of 10 in quality
/r/seduction03/09/19 12:51 PM
1

Just join a frat
/r/seduction31/08/19 09:01 PM
2

Typically if a woman doesnt want to come to your place early its a trust issue.
/r/seduction28/08/19 08:42 PM
0

i dont get it
/r/seduction27/08/19 01:14 PM
1

Do these 3 things and you’ll have your life back, I promise. Won’t be cheap, and will be worth your investments. 1) Invest in a quality life coach with the purpose being to help you create your purpose in this world 2) Seek therapy, and commit to it weekly 3) Find the nearest “Landmark Forum” course around you, and go to it. Google it, and just trust me.
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:16 PM
3

bro i didnt kiss a girl until i was 18. youre not an outcast. and its because youre not assertive, point blank. whens the last time you had a date with a girl?
/r/seduction24/08/19 12:42 AM
1

Not for me. And I don't feel any numbing, really. It's pretty light in my experience, and effective enough to where it works. I still cum -- it takes me a lot of work to, but hey, way better than not lasting long enough
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:11 PM
3

I was the same. When I used Trojan’s Extended Pleasure condoms, I went from lasting 3-5min to lasting over an hour. This reduced my anxiety in bed, thus helping my performance when I dont use it. A lot of premature ejac can come from simply the anxiety itself so while we dont like to depend on external (i agree) it could be just what you need to reduce the anxiety so you dont need much external support Edit: Also, how long is your foreplay? I try to make girls close to cumming, or cum, before I …
/r/seduction23/08/19 02:51 AM
5

Men are turned on from visuals and touch. If you’re all over him, and you’re both drunk, you’ll prob end up with him at end of night unless he’s tired of you. Even then, its tough for a lot of guys to turn down. At least, thats how it works for me...
/r/seduction16/08/19 03:57 AM
1

Until you decide to have the courage to make life play for you versus against you, it’s going to be tough. I was an extreme introvert too. Sorry to say — you’re going to have to talk to people in person if you actually want a relationship. Not saying you wont find one online, sure that can happen. And you’ve experienced how much work it is/how it takes way longer.
/r/seduction15/08/19 09:50 PM
2

My pleasure. Yeah anyway to hangout outside of work thats soon should help ya with those goals. Hope it works out, would love to hear the result
/r/seduction15/08/19 09:35 PM
5

When it comes to work mates, I only direct ask if I 100% know she’ll say yes from her IOIs. Outside of that, I like the approach of hanging out as friends to get to know each other and see if anything is there, and then go in for the relationship part. I’m currently dating someone that went from work relationship to actual, and I went about it very carefully. We just “hanged out” one night in a public place, then when I could tell she wanted more, we made it more. In a nutshell, if you care abou…
/r/seduction15/08/19 09:21 PM
13

I wouldn’t downplay money though — they sucked at using it as a source of helping them out. At least offer the girls free drinks and stuff.
/r/seduction15/08/19 09:02 PM
2

Only if you make it awkward
/r/seduction14/08/19 07:53 PM
5

From what I’ve read on the news, seems like a good bet is hitting on teachers!
/r/seduction14/08/19 07:49 PM
2

Of course, you haven’t done a lot of it. And most people haven’t. It takes practice, and courage to get it started.
/r/seduction14/08/19 06:17 PM
1

Have you got 1 yet? Sept 30 is gonna come quick. Report soldier
/r/seduction14/08/19 03:05 PM
4

Walk us through 1-2 (ideally 2) situations where it ended with them saying “not feeling it.” In as much detail, esp in your approach and what you said, as possible.
/r/seduction14/08/19 01:57 AM
4

These websites are the worst.
/r/seduction13/08/19 09:26 PM
2

Pretty sure that’s illegal. Jk, it’s 100% okay. How did you get the thought that it isnt?
/r/seduction13/08/19 03:46 PM
2

Whooo buddy, I’d love to hear others thoughts on this as well. I already know it’s not an easy thing to accomplish. I had an opportunity and couldnt take advantage of it due to work in the morning.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:52 PM
1

Build up for what? The only reason I can see you wanting to “build up” something is a fear of rejection, which makes no sense since you mentioned you don’t fear that. As you said, it was either meant to be or it wasn’t. You’ve known her for years. You can talk to her. And in your next talk, I’d also add in you asking her out. The longer you don’t, the less attractive you become and the more likely someone like me will come scoop her away from you if she is single. It sucks and I’ve been in your …
/r/seduction13/08/19 01:33 PM
2

Start gaming new women immediately.
/r/seduction13/08/19 04:17 AM
1

How old are you OP? First, Tinder and apps similar will have a significant portion of women who find it challenging to find a relationship like the population you’re pointing out. On top of that, the older you get, the more of those you’ll likely see. In addition, 9s and 10s that aren’t moms may possibility be more picky on a mate than the population you’re describing. And I’m not sure how easy it is for black men in Canada.
/r/seduction13/08/19 03:09 AM
3

Yes, here’s advice: 100% do not text her your feelings for this situation. It’s a ticket to the friendzone if you’re not already there. If you feel like there’s chemistry between you two, either ask her out in person or on the phone. Do not text her — I know this from experience when I was afraid to ask out women. The more in person it is, the more courageous it’ll come across and the more likely she’ll go out with you.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:56 AM
1

This. Learning what’s holding him back and making a gameplan from there is the quickest way to seducing your BF. We can give you all the sexy tips in the world, and even if it works for a moment, without knowing what’s going on you may find yourself back at square one over and over again.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:27 AM
2

Average is 0 per day as most people don't bother -- that's what I'm comparing ya too. Keep it up. While I'm in a relationship, inspires me to just meet people.
/r/seduction13/08/19 12:04 AM
1

“Which isn’t amazing” — are you trolling? That’s pretty damn amazing.
/r/seduction12/08/19 11:11 PM
7

Something about your “aim of life” being to have a wife and kids isn’t sitting with me well. I feel like that may be apart of what’s making things challenging for you, outside of your height. Eitherway, its a numbers game. You may have to hit up more women than men who are, say, 6 ft tall, however there’s a billion people on this planet so we can be safe to say there’s women who like you. Market yourself on dating sites AND get into the field and game. The more women you approach/match with, the…
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:35 AM
2

They’re called bisexuals
/r/seduction10/08/19 09:07 PM
1

How did you meet this girl?
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:13 PM
1

If you want to date her, I’d push and work on scheduling the 2nd date like you did the first. If you leave it in her court, you may not get a date. The girl I’m dating now for almost half a year was VERY challlenging to schedule in the beginning. If I wasn’t aggressive with wanting so see her, I would have never saw her.
/r/seduction10/08/19 03:12 PM
1

It’s something you have to see for yourself if it helps you in your game/relationships or not. I’m more aggressive if I’m horny and haven’t jacked off for awhile. Personally I cant go weeks without jacking off so I found that jacking off every 1-2 weeks if I’m not having sex seems to be most effective for me.
/r/seduction10/08/19 03:09 PM
1

Share your feelings. I use to be closed off too. It was a major reason I never got into a longterm relationship. Took me almost 30 years to figure that out
/r/seduction10/08/19 05:18 AM
1

Yeah only a guy would say crap like that. Sorry bro
/r/seduction10/08/19 01:34 AM
2

Have you directly had a conversation on what gets her in the mood?
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:30 PM
1

ask her out before she loses interest. she’s going to say yes.
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:13 PM
2

Yeah I agree — keep contact light. Maybe 1-2 contact attempts on seperate days before the date.
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:07 PM
1

Yeah, a “wrong” decision for one is a “right” decision for another. I read on here awhile back about a date someone had. The lady was acting very cold, not wanting to kiss, be touched, etc. When she was getting a ride back home, she asked why they didnt have sex. She wanted him to basically almost rape her! So, cant win.
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:03 PM
9

I’ve been pretty successful. Never assume slow response equals low interest. It’s a mindset that can end up biting you from getting future dates.
/r/seduction08/08/19 10:23 PM
4

As a guy who had women in a state of “Are we ever going to be in a relationship?” for several years, I can say there’s a high chance he’s mostly with you for sex and qualities of a relationship without the relationship. If you want to see how he really feels about you, I’d give him an ultimatum. Be exclusive with you, or you’re moving on. Without that, I think you’re going to experience a lot more emotional headaches unless you consider it a FWB until you find someone better for yourself. To add…
/r/seduction08/08/19 03:09 AM
2

Ice breaker, then name introduction, then brief conversation. Acknowledge said individual anytime you see them to develop further comfort and rapport. If chemistry exists at any point, ask for number.
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:40 AM
3

You can, you’ll just have less dates. Since its all online, a lot of women have their guards up. Personally I’d shoot for house on a 2nd date, but if you want to not beat around the bush and get someone that wants sex as immediately as you do then perhaps go for it until a fish bites. Its a numbers game. And public first dates can turn into sexual first dates if the energy is there.
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:37 AM
5

“Hi, I see you here every morning and thought I’d introduce myself “
/r/seduction08/08/19 02:20 AM
1

I mean, she’s DTF. And if any word gets out that you two had sex, there’s severe legal consequences that could fuck you for life. Its your life.
/r/seduction08/08/19 01:57 AM
1

Your break killed the relationship unfortunately. You didn’t seem too excited for her anyways.
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:07 PM
2

You’re right — cause at some point we choose to stop improving ourselves because lets face it, self improvement is challenging. It brings us out of our comfort zone and we eventually put a pause on it or quit at it cause we give in.
/r/seduction07/08/19 08:16 PM
1

This. Sometimes it takes more time to get into a woman’s pants.
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:46 AM
1

Have you made requests for him to do more specific things, or do you just talk about it? That’s great you talk about it — what does he normally say in response to what you want more of?
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:44 AM
3

If you truly want a healthy way of discussing it and setting boundaries, as well as having it less awkward around friends, I’d have a one on one with her either in person (over coffee, food, whatever), or on the phone. I can see it a potential challenge to address in a group setting, and texting IMO isn’t the most effective when there’s emotions involved and you want to set healthy boundaries while maintaining a friend-relationship. Unless someone can chime in with something different that’s eff…
/r/seduction07/08/19 01:58 AM
6

Would you want your buddy to do the same if you was with a girl for 2 years? I’d follow the answer to that question
/r/seduction05/08/19 06:27 PM
1

Are you normally a morning bird?
/r/seduction03/08/19 04:42 AM
1

Doesnt look that different, go meet her. Focus more on her than you. Not going to have a good time and have a chance at anything if otherwise
/r/seduction02/08/19 10:14 PM
5

I’ve rarely seen face modifications benefit a person, outside of braces
/r/seduction02/08/19 03:41 AM
1

Second on this. I’ve had to learn the hard way OP.
/r/seduction02/08/19 02:14 AM
3

I doubt it was disgust. How often do you feel disgusted when someone looks at you during a speech? I’d roll the dice more on anxiousness than disgust. Esp if you feel youre attractive
/r/seduction23/07/19 04:24 AM
1

Are you just sharing this with us or do you have a question? I get a boner all the time too.
/r/seduction22/07/19 09:34 PM
1

Of course it’s on both sides. My goal with all of this is to prevent any of you from making the mistakes I made. I’ve been accused of rape because I wasn’t open with my intentions. I hope you’re all careful with playing this game of the fuckboy lifestyle. I’m done with it.
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:25 PM
1

So you’re avoiding bringing any of it up so you can have sex?
/r/seduction22/07/19 04:20 PM
1

The manipulation part is having sex with her with the intent of just having sex versus a relationship when she’s expecting it’s for a relationship. If we don’t clear our intentions.
/r/seduction22/07/19 03:59 PM
1

Depends on your morals. Personally I think it adds to today’s problems with accusations to men when we aren’t open with our intentions. Without sharing our intentions, we’re manipulating them for our self gain with no respect for their wishes — thats what gets us in trouble. If you dont care for that then yeah, dont mention your intentions, keep sexual talk light since it scares them away until things escalate.
/r/seduction22/07/19 03:39 PM
2

Nice ad
/r/seduction20/07/19 09:53 PM
0

3 hours sounds too long. You’ll want them to want to see you again. If dates are as fun as you say, then if its around an hour theyll wish it was longer
/r/seduction20/07/19 06:14 AM
2

Because “unattractive” is subjective
/r/seduction19/07/19 01:43 PM
2

Because you got what you wanted — sex. Its like getting a black belt, and losing motivation to go further cause you joined just to get the black belt versus for the martial art specifically. You came to her to get laid versus to be with her specifically.
/r/seduction19/07/19 01:05 PM
1

fuck it bro
/r/seduction19/07/19 01:04 PM
1

You’re not a straight female, nor prob a female at all
/r/seduction19/07/19 01:59 AM
1

Cool story but I live not too distant from the first picture and I’ve had no problems getting laid. Having a nice place can definitely be more welcoming though, for sure.
/r/seduction19/07/19 12:22 AM
1

Yeah, OP create a connection with her and see if she wants to hang out if you guys have energy.
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:39 AM
2

This. Go behind counter and grab her at hip. Make sure to squat with good form
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:37 AM
2

Sounds like you need to call her out (nicely) on what she’s doing and set your boundaries. If you dont I feel like her expectations of you will prevent a future smash.
/r/seduction18/07/19 02:35 AM
2

this. it’ll turn her on instantly
/r/seduction16/07/19 10:59 PM
3

You had her commit to a date. You won on that department. Is that literally all of the conversation you two have had? If so, there wasn’t much connection/relationship building before the date which makes seeing you less exciting if you’ve never met her.
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:46 PM
4

Low ROI for sure.
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:41 PM
1

What are you focused on in first dates? And what are your goals?
/r/seduction15/07/19 10:05 PM
1

Ignore the research, we can use that excuse for anything. Never a good idea to connect with women at work cause its work, never a good idea to connect with women at grocery store cause they came to shop, etc. Throw all that out the window. It won’t matter if you two have an awesome connection and energy together. Who doesn’t like new awesome friends (and potentially more?). Go join that class and start networking.
/r/seduction15/07/19 09:59 PM
9

Concentrate on connecting with her and having fun, not with getting into her pants. You’ll be sweating bullets and a stumbling mess if you focus on sex versus connection. Also if you’re unsure on if its a date or not, itd be good to make clear of your interests otherwise be prepared to awkwardly fall into a friend zone if she doesn’t see it as a date. I’ve experienced this way too many times unfortunately where I thought it was a date and they thought otherwise.
/r/seduction15/07/19 05:30 PM
1

What the hell is this post
/r/seduction15/07/19 05:03 PM
1

You dont have to quit porn to have game. Know that it wont improve your game. I watch porn all the time lmao, I’m fine
/r/seduction14/07/19 04:58 AM
1

At least pick a class that you enjoy or you gonna be pissed if you dont pick up a woman from it
/r/seduction14/07/19 02:25 AM
1

Prob cause he’s marketing it
/r/seduction14/07/19 02:20 AM
5

Making fun of others is always a risk, esp to women who are overly offended when anything physical is brought up. Now if you compliment her belly button and joke about yours, that would be a safer approach IMO
/r/seduction13/07/19 05:21 PM
1

Make more guy friends to develop social skills then go make more women friends. As said, they’re just people so you talk to them like people. Find some social activities to join that force you to interact with others, and keep doing them
/r/seduction13/07/19 05:06 PM
2

Lol. Seriously I’ve found women through mutual interest activities. If you can make time for any type of way to meet people outside of work, whether its group exercise or volunteering or whatever, its all a numbers game. The more people you meet, the more likely you’ll find someone you’re into
/r/seduction13/07/19 04:51 PM
25

Area 51 is probably the best place if you can sneak through security
/r/seduction13/07/19 04:47 PM
1

Interesting, that hasn’t been my experience. The woman I’m dating now (and have been for almost half a year) appreciated having a man that actually wanted her. I find a lot of women find that attractive. I wouldnt have her if I didnt keep working on it. If I took your advice, I wouldn’t be with the woman of my dreams today.
/r/seduction13/07/19 02:50 AM
1

Found your message surprising as it has literally landed me with a wonderful woman. What makes it dumb?
/r/seduction13/07/19 02:38 AM
2

My pleasure. And since you’re on here for advice, when I hear “I will try my best”, I hear a lack of confidence which I don’t blame you if that is so. It took me almost 30 years to gain courage to ask someone out in person. It’s scary, and I invite you to think about — first, how tired are you with being single and a virgin? Is it a true priority for that to be adjusted? If so, would you prefer letting life play itself out the way its playing as a spectator, or would you prefer to be a player in…
/r/seduction13/07/19 02:27 AM
3

You mentioned you’re good at socializing with guys and girls, which makes this so much easier. All you have to do now is next time you connect strongly with a girl, and you find you have emotions for her, ask her out. If she says no, she says no. And keep doing it. If you’re honest with how you feel with others, I think you’ll be fine. Keep in mind that unless every single person you’ve met have verbally told you that you’re unattractive and they arent interested in you, you don’t know how they …
/r/seduction13/07/19 02:09 AM
0

This. See it like business, you have a lead that’s interested. Keep working it. ONLY if you truly want the date. If you dont want the date, then keep the ball in her court. You’ll date less if you are too passive. “But isnt it a sign that she isnt interested if she doesnt respond?”. Maybe, maybe not. She could think you’re not interested and not respond while she’s actually interested. You don’t know — right now she seems interested. Keep trying until she truly stops engaging. I’ve been with the…
/r/seduction13/07/19 01:37 AM
7

This.
/r/seduction12/07/19 02:20 PM
2

I don’t think so. He wanted the answer and you gave it to him. If you two still talk today and if continues to persist, I’d draw a line and say if you continue to persist with this then you’re not going to want to be friends. That wouldve set me straight with the women I had a crush on that I was in the friend zone with. I’d be blunt with your boundaries— he thinks there’s a chance. He thinks he can change your mind. If you think him losing weight and changing aspects of him would give him a cha…
/r/seduction11/07/19 08:06 PM
2

Hey, this advice will maybe be outside the norm. I’m around your age, learned a lot on here for many years, and this is what I found works for me, and has helped me get an actual relationship: Meet as many people as you can, and if you find that you connect strongly with a woman and you’re attracted to her, then that’s where we take the risk, get vulnerable, and go for seeing if they’re interested in 1:1s. It’s a numbers game. Meet 1000 people, you’ll find at least a few golden opportunities. Th…
/r/seduction11/07/19 07:00 PM
2

Hell yeah! Love it, sounds like we’ve both found this strategy to be more effective than others in the past. Good luck, and yeah theres a billion people on this planet, def are others you’d hit it off well with we can bet!
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:48 PM
2

If we keep in mind that texting is mostly for logistics, then you can mention to her that you’ll reconnect with her in a few weeks. If you want to put the ball in her court, you can ask her to reconnect with you, and if she doesn’t, reach back out to her. Personally I don’t think it matters which way. Keep in mind 3 weeks is a long time and she can also be looking around. From my experience on dating apps, you’re easy to be forgotten. Women are hit up in so many ways from guys, there’s no guaran…
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:17 PM
3

Yup. Regardless of who contacts who, the date even happening will showcase signs of actual interest.
/r/seduction11/07/19 05:07 PM
2

yes, go talk to her like shes a human being
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:12 AM
3

youre right. it is over and youll never be with a woman. and its not because of how you look. its because you quit and youre not even gonna try. promise, ive been in your shoes. theres billions of women in the world. at least 1 likes you that you like
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:07 AM
1

Welcome to Tinder!
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:58 AM
5

Yeah I do both. Stupidest myths ever
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:20 AM
1

Are you wanting a long term relationship or just sex?
/r/seduction02/07/19 03:46 PM
4

Its over bro, move on
/r/seduction02/07/19 03:44 PM
1

Yeah go get rejected harder
/r/seduction02/07/19 03:40 PM
6

Send a dix pic
/r/seduction02/07/19 03:39 PM
1

I agree on that, absolutely. On the topic of finding FWB that doesn’t want long-term, it’ll take searching. And I bet most of those who claim they’re not wanting long-term probably do want long-term and they’re having some personal blocks with commitment and relationships.
/r/seduction28/06/19 03:31 PM
32

Honestly most women from my experience, and most humans, want a long term relationship so it takes going through a lot of women until you find someone who’s more casual. As mentioned, you’re likely to find women of that type in environments that are free spirited or party-centric. And Tinder probably is another source.
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:22 AM
1

And how many of them said you were ugly? They made a face that you made up the story to of them saying you’re ugly. My significant other makes that same face to me
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:41 PM
1

By telling yourself it’s a story you’re pretending. There’s no evidence they think that unless they all tell you directly. So you’re making this story up that they think you’re ugly, it’s not real
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:37 PM
7

I made women friends and just got comfortable hanging out with them. Treated them as humans. Thats about it
/r/seduction22/06/19 06:48 AM
6

mine does
/r/seduction16/06/19 04:27 PM
2

If your goal is to not look bad, then don’t lie as it could bite your ass later in the relationship. Also, if you set the habits of lying to impress her, you’re likely to do more of it risking breaking even more trust with the woman. You have a legit excuse on not having a license, no reason to lie about it. Say you’re a few months away from having it
/r/seduction20/05/19 02:08 PM
3

Hate to be blunt but go out and make more friends and get out of your comfort zone, or wait until better opportunities arise. The more people you go out and meet, the more likely you’ll find an awesome girl. Time to get social if theres no girls in your school and you dont want to do online dating
/r/seduction15/05/19 04:31 PM
1

I did, youtube videos arent well conducted studies
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:09 AM
1

Where does science say it? Hell in the relationship I’m in, we watch porn together sometimes. I think it depends on how its used
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:28 AM
1

Porn hasn’t increased my social anxiety and depression, I think it gets a lot of bad rap. Not being social or addressing my depression has increased said items. The more experience I got with women, the less anxious I got around them.
/r/seduction13/05/19 07:38 PM
2

Because you’re more focused on their pussy than the person, making you shy. Just be loving to people and you’ll never make a mistake
/r/seduction11/05/19 01:01 AM
7

So what you’re saying is you’re showering in pussy
/r/seduction11/05/19 12:59 AM
1

Umm -- keep in mind ya'll broke up for a reason.
/r/seduction10/05/19 11:05 PM
10

Cut her out and Catch feelings with someone else. Fastesr way for me
/r/seduction09/05/19 05:52 PM
1

Looks arent an excuse because there are guys way uglier than you in relationships with girls youd be attracted to.
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:21 PM
13

Befriending girls gets you access to more girls if they’re all taken! Make friends
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:19 PM
1

Definitely don’t get too aggressive in the beginning. Create a relationship first and definitely find big things in common. She’s going to have to want to engage with you
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:17 PM
1

Easy. Don’t go in for a relationship as the priority.
/r/seduction06/05/19 11:15 PM
1

Instead of making approaches with the intentions of eventually getting into a girl’s pants, have you tried with the intentions of simply connecting with someone and helping them have a better day? Personally that was my problem. I was very logical like you with all of this.
/r/seduction04/05/19 09:47 PM
1

I encourage considering it in person. You may learn about what prevented her from texting you that’ll put your anxiety at ease and help you have a stronger relationship, and vice versa
/r/seduction20/04/19 10:19 PM
1

What prevents you from asking her?
/r/seduction20/04/19 08:06 PM
1

This. It seems like she’d have sex with you if she could trust you wanted more out of her than just sex. If she hasn’t already gone cold on you, I’d have several dates that’s building the relationship, and then go in for the sex.
/r/seduction27/03/19 06:56 PM
3

On top of this, I learned that if a woman is unhappy with how often they talk to you, and they only see you once a week or less, it may be helpful to attempt to increase contact time as the dates get more serious. This is one issue that distanced me from my ex -- I saw her once a week, and she needed more than that. Definitely keep texting limited.
/r/seduction09/12/17 02:06 AM
3

For me: 1) If she wants a 2nd date, she's interested in me enough to most likely accept a kiss from me. 2) If she's often very deep in my personal space, more than what's normal, she'll likely accept a kiss from me. 3) If she wants to hang around longer with me socially when most women would bounce, she'll likely accept a kiss from me. Non-verbal communication is a powerful tool. Also, when I can't read women, and I feel like there's a possibility they'd be down for a kiss, I just ask them and t…
/r/seduction21/10/17 09:50 PM
2

Make friends with girls you aren't attracted to, so you can get more comfortable with women.
/r/seduction21/10/17 09:45 PM
14

For a long time, I've felt lonely. Even when hanging out with friends, I've felt lonely. Even when I was in a relationship, I felt lonely. I realized (and it took a while) that one major reason I felt this way is because I didn't love myself. Sometimes we hear this, and it doesn't make sense. It doesn't mean I go into the mirror and say, "I love you." It means that I listen to my body, and what it needs, and I give it what it needs. If I feel stressed, I do something to de-stress. If I feel angr…
/r/seduction01/09/17 08:15 PM
3

You feel like you've eliminated from your life all situations where you may encounter an attractive girl. You feel like you've screwed up your love life. Good news is: it can be rebuilt. Start small, and rebuild. One brick at a time. If it's scary, start small. I know it's easier said than done. Keep it in mind.
/r/seduction30/08/17 09:00 PM
3

Have you considered rebuilding? That's always an option, even when it may not feel like it.
/r/seduction30/08/17 05:45 PM
1

Stop focusing on women, and start focusing on friends. I promise it'll only lead to what you ultimately desire in life, plus more.
/r/seduction02/08/17 04:27 AM
1

Next time say it's a date. Being in the situation where it being a date is a question is the worst, and most def awk.
/r/seduction25/07/17 03:22 AM
1

Don't be a jerk and flake. Just tell her you can't do it and move on.
/r/seduction20/12/15 04:51 PM
-1

Height and looks play a huge role, agreed. We need to stop downplaying them.
/r/seduction08/10/15 02:46 AM
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This is just personal opinion, which obviously is what you'll be getting. In order to get any new relationship, obviously you're going to need to meet people to some capacity. You have a great opportunity at that with being in a University. The more we are thirsty for a relationship, generally the more we end up repelling women, so I think it's more important to establish a social foundation first. If you can make some friends with common interests, that'll translate to meeting more people you d…
/r/seduction27/09/15 08:51 PM
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Personally, I feel like the gentleman thing to do is to give them a decent amount of time -- it's the risk you take. One of her friends could be your future wife, so I wouldn't want to start bad press. If you don't care about all that, then when you notice that it isn't going to workout, tell her you only have X amount of time to spend with her, so you have an easy cop out.
/r/seduction02/02/15 03:58 AM
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Since you're on this reddit, I'm guessing you're looking to also get a girl out of this. Also assuming you're anxious, know that there will more than likely be strangers (you don't know these people well) that are in the same situation as you, and will be by themselves, or with a very small group isolated away. These people are extremely vulnerable for socialization and probably want it, just as you do. Just do small talk with them, and if it goes deeper, great, if not, politely speak with other…
/r/seduction01/06/14 07:33 AM
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I really wish I could end this ritual. I've fapped every day for over 2 years. I'm still horny to have sex and approach girls. If they're hot, I'm going to approach them, horny or not. It's biology/instinct. I have my first girlfriend. We have sex every day we meet. I'm 25. Fapping actually helps me last longer in bed, and is a great stress relief. OP, do as most have said. Go out to have fun, not to get a girl. You'll either come back happy, happy with a girl's number, or happy with a sore dick…
/r/seduction01/06/14 07:16 AM
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Solid tips, thank guys.
/r/seduction04/05/14 05:34 PM
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I normally do an observational topic, or a light simple joke if one is applicable. On the observational topic -- if it's at their work, I can just go, "How's work been for you today?" Or I can compliment them on something I like that they do. Or I can ask their thoughts on a particular product. On a light simple joke, it's just random. For example, I go to the bank frequently to get a ton of quarters for laundry. I'll make the joke I'm addicted to arcade machines. Stuff like that gets easier ove…
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:50 AM
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And I bet theres a handful of those guys that are meeting girls your age. Find out who those guys are, friend them, and hang out with them. Or at least find out how they're meeting girls outside of your school.
/r/seduction07/04/14 03:00 AM
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Something that works for me is getting into flings/relationships with new girls. I've never gotten over a girl until a new girl falls into my life. If that's something you've personally experienced as well, see if it helps take your mind more off that. The prescription of oneitis IS approaching other girls. Seems like you need to take the pill.
/r/seduction06/04/14 09:52 PM
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Yeah, all you got to do is network with people who have decent sized networks of their own, and bam, you have new friends, including girls. High school and college are some of the best places to meet girls. If you can't find anyone you like in your own school, network and make friendships a priority, and I assure that you'll run into some new people at some point that may fit your likings.
/r/seduction06/04/14 09:35 PM
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Great material, definitely helped me fine-tune my game. For example, you're right, the touching thing definitely makes it easier to transition into kissing. The wingman stuff was also a great point -- solid presentation!
/r/seduction06/04/14 06:21 AM
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What's something you're confident you can do? What makes you so confident about that? If you don't know how to fix something, are you more confident after you researched how to do it? If you fixed that something millions of times before, are you super confident you can fix it again the correct way? For me, experience and research has helped my confidence. Reading websites like this, dating advice books/articles, etc. can make you feel more prepared. Though, you can do all the research in the wor…
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:22 AM
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Only if you're super awkward about it. I've seen guys get laughed at for that. Those guys also showcased extremely low confidence.
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:16 AM
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I'm not a dating professional, but I've just recently been successful. I've been going to college parties almost every weekend for over 3 years, and I've been to MANY that fit that 150-200 range. I've NEVER had luck with taking a girl home, but that's been changing recently thanks to confidence building, this website, dating advice books, dating experiences, etc. The last girl I took home gave me extremely large indications of interest (lots of touching, being close to me, dancing, etc.). After …
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:10 AM
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