Hookers?

seddit_doneit · 2019-09-03T17:12:25+00:00

Here's the thing, dating apps only work if you already don't need to be on there because you're a baller. Unless you're swiping on fat/ugly chicks, you're not going to have all that much success without putting in tons of effort.

That said, fucking a prostitute isn't going to help you feel like you lost your virginity. Sex is fun and all, but earning it is half the battle. You pay a girl to fuck because you want to fuck, not because you want to seek validation in your own sexuality. The only thing you'll end up doing is making yourself feel shameful that the only reason you're not a virgin is because you paid for it. You'll constantly preface your "I'm not a virgin" with "I paid for it."

My advice? Fuck off of Tinder, Hinge, whatever, and go pick up hobbies that makes you meet people. Here's some of my hobbies that completely changed the game and introduced me to dozens of women in a fun, intimate setting: rock climbing, swing dance (just google beginners swing dance). I'd mostly suggest swing dancing, since anyone can pick it up, it's a fun skill, and it puts you in intimate situations with other beginners, so it's not like you'll be ostracized for being new. At the end of the day, train yourself to want to be a better person, and worry about the sex later. You'll start to get it when you start to take authority of your own success.

Prais · 2019-09-03T13:07:59+00:00

Bad idea imo. Stop making woman a priority, as stupid as that sounds. Work on yourself and start approaching women with no goal in mind. Having a women in your life wont magically fix your problems. You should be happy with yourself AS IS and then think about inviting a women into your life to share your experiences.

quinnmcd · 2019-09-03T13:06:16+00:00

I got think you shouldn’t put so much effort into finding a relationship. Relationships are best when form organically and seem to happen when you aren’t actively looking for them.

Getting a hooker won’t teach you proper communication, escalation and reading indicators that she wants to have sex. Getting a hooker is taking the easy way out and will probably have some physical satisfaction but won’t give you the mental validation you’re wanting.

Continue to go to therapy and don’t rush the process. Your long-term success is more important than a quick fix with a hooker.

priestofghazpork · 2019-09-03T13:56:40+00:00

Get the hooker just to get the Virgin thing out of your head after that get out and do it the right way

Kratz177 · 2019-09-03T17:45:03+00:00

I agree with the guy saying get a hooker to get the virginity out of the way.

I lost my virginity at a brothel and it hasn’t change me in the slight me I still cold approach more than any combined.

The guys perpetuating the, “No hookers” are the PUA coaches who are afraid of losing their clients. Since they themselves have little value to offer to them.

serpx · 2019-09-03T13:08:49+00:00

It’s going to be tough to get a relationship when you don’t take ownership with where you’re at versus blaming mental illness.

Title	Hookers?
Author	masterflappie
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	September 3, 2019 11:26 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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