Hey Seddit, I hope this isnt a stupid question, but I need some help. Ive tried to read some of the books posted in this sub and have followed the community here for a little while. Im slowly getting better with the approach anxiety, and I feel I am not afraid to go in for the kiss and all the "end game" of the night. My problem is building attraction trough talk. What do you talk about? What are your go to themes. And how do you combine them with mild touching and other ways of showing interest. It seems silly to small talk and to these things. It just seems out of place. I would love if someone would tell me what they said for the first 10 minutes of a typical conversation, for the inital attraction. I understand that every girl doesnt work the same way, but a pointer would be amazing! Thanks