About me:
31 male. Tall. In shape. (Attractive..) On Nofap Hard mode, day 48 (Had a wet dream, then continued onward and am now at day 28 again)
Also just started a new job 2 months ago. I think the reason why my progress is slow, is because I am trying to learn Game at the same time trying to learn a new job.
I've done a few approaches in the past 2 months. But I noticed now that I am going on my third month, I am getting balsier. I was just about to give all of this up, but today I cold approached a woman for the first time in a long time. Just went up to her and made conversation / joke.
Also approached a crazy hot SJW protesting trump few days ago.
Also got a # off POF; but that was from doing the Neg -> qualify x 3.
When I am in a Walmart, I immediately think to myself "Target located" - and then plan a way to just casually walk by and make a joke.
Made joke / comment to worker @ fast food place
I've been going out to bars and had zero success, I don't really like bars. Never feel comfortable in them + I don't drink.
But I have to tell you guys, it has taken me 2 months to actually feel comfortable to make small comments / conversation with a woman .
Nofap doesn't give you any game; it makes you magnetic to hot women, but it doesn't make you talk to them; in fact it can make it harder to talk to them; you have to be 100% in control of your emotions. I used to have better game and fap all the time.
Nofap just makes you attract higher caliber of women; also makes you calm and dominant and in control of the conversation more / loud.
Cant give up now, have to keep progressing. Of course, get rejected thousands of times on POF, but this time less because I open with a neg. Also IRL got rejected once but not really, just had bad vibes and girl seemed bitchy. no big deal.
Only have done really about 3-4 approached in the past 2 months, which were in the form of joke / small conversation. Yes, it's taking me FOREVER. I SUCK AT THIS!!!
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