How important is a woman's perception or the general publics perception of you and how you are irl. I was talking to my friend who is with a girl that knows a girl I was with at a point. He told me in confidence that he once asked the girl he's with why me and the other girl didn't work out and she said. she expected something different from me. Its been bothering me because someone once told me I'm not the same person I am online. Now I'm wondering how both people can be in sync and how important are the things you show people online and all that.