• Stay out until the club closes - or until you’ve burned it out. How are you meant to pull if you go home before midnight? (My London wings used to do this when I was a newbie and I’m still low-key mad at them haha).
  • Open a lot. Dress well. Don’t be weird. Blah blah blah. Of course, the basics of game apply here. The rest of this post focuses solely on successful pulls though...
  • A short route home cannot be overrated. A mediocre club near your house is way better than a superclub several miles away.
  • Use the start of the night to film dumb IG stories with girls and tag them in it. You’re not going to pull at this time, so you might as well build leads for later on.
  • Grab the IG or phone number of all girls you’re interested in. It’s a beginner’s mistake to assume you’ll bump into them later in the night. If you haven’t pulled, try mass texting ‘where are you’ at the end of the night. It’s worked for me before...
  • Either you’re good at ‘dancefloor game’ or you’re not. If you’re not, stay away from it! (Btw I’ve never seen RSD infields from a crowded dancefloor. Just saying...)
  • Get her logistics quickly. If they suck, number-close and leave her, no matter how much she likes you. Don’t waste time with the friendly girl who isn’t DTF.
  • Ideally, you want to get the girl away from the crowded part of the venue. Even better if it’s away from her friends. Ideally, you’re sat down together, stood outside or in a quieter area. At the very least, drag her to the bar. Now, you can use verbal game and build a proper connection. Other dudes should be less likely to crash your set here, because you two could well look like a couple at this point.
  • Seed the pull early. Whatever your excuse is to go home, make it sound beyond awesome. Awesome afterparty. The world’s best Italian wine. Award-winning fish fingers and chips. You get the idea…
  • I’m always telling stories about how I love spontaneous, adventurous people. I’ll screen to see if she’s one of these people. She can prove she is later on by leaving the club with you.
  • Ignore her friends at your peril. Ultimately, it’s them who decide whether or not you can take this hottie home. Once the hottie is hooked, I’m focusing more attention on the friends I need to win over.
  • Sometimes it’s clear she likes you, but there’s no signs she’ll agree to leave the club with you. Go for the pull anyway. You’ll be pleasantly surprised.
  • Baby-step the pull. A lot of my pulls start with going outside to ‘get fresh air’, then to get food, then some bar near my house if necessary.
  • Know your planned route home BEFORE you get into the club. Dilly-dallying during the pull won’t help.
  • During the pull, keep up the fun. Keep talking. Any awkward silences will make her logical mind kick back in. Thoughts of partying, adventure and spontaneity subside. Not ideal…
  • See my previous post for advice on how to treat her once she’s in your bedroom. People seemed to like it...
  • Always strap up, even if you’re drunk. There’s no need for a permanent reminder of your epic night out. ;)

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