Push/pull Theory:

I thought I'd shed some light on this topic. I've been able to incorporate this technique into my personal style pretty successfully. Sometimes even to the point that I felt guilty doing it. However it does work. I've found that push-pull is great for both attracting the girl as well as keeping her attracted even after already being in a relationship.

Push/Pull theory is: pulling a woman in with something sweet or interesting and then you push them away with something teasing or disqualifying.

I think the easiest example is while having a conversation with a girl at a bar, turning your body and head away for a couple of seconds as though you are gonna leave right after she has just explained something, then turned back to where your body was positioned before.

It sends a message to the girl that you are going to be somewhat of a challenge, which sparks her interest. Women typically want a man who is of high value, a man who is of high value displays nonverbal messages that he has more female options than most men. I believe the reason women go for guys who have more options is because he is for one, a leader.

A man who has other options is most likely mentally stable, a good person, brave and most likely a good provider over-all. Which means he will take good care of the woman he is with.Whether or not this is true is another story. Also women tend to believe a guy like this is going to be more of a challenge to get than others.

So back to push/pull. Push/pull is a technique that stimulates the emotion fear. Most people have developed a social phobia known as fear of rejection. No one likes to be rejected. I grew up with sisters and at times I would see them break down into tears due to a guy not liking them. Sometimes it was over down-right ugly guys.

You can apply push/pull with your friends, women, co-workers or even your boss. I wouldn't advise it but it is somewhat of a social hack that works. If you master it then you will be able to get many girls at least interested. If you are good in bed then you will even be able to apply it to a relationship with a girlfriend that you like and want to stay around.

Here are some more examples that I have tried regarding push/pull:

-1. When fighting with a girlfriend: Simply state a quality that you don't like a bout her and tell her that you don't think she can change and how you want to be with someone who doesn't have her problems. Tell her you aren't going to apologize because you are sick of it and don't want to deal with it anymore. Pause and let it sink in.

Make sure to be standing by the door. When she is done going on about whatever. She will get sad maybe cry, then she will grab her belongings and head for the door.

As she is leaving for the door you then grab her, hug her and say sorry in a caring demeanor. She will most likely start crying. Then pull her to the bed and start kissing her. This may lead to sex. However it will make her feel better. The relief she feels when you grab her and tell her sorry right after indicating your lack of interest, will trigger endorphins and make her feel really good.

-2. Let's say you are on your first date and sitting down next to your date while she is next to you. Grab her arm and put it around yours. If she isn't grabbing it firmly then push it away while saying, "Nevermind, you're too weak."(while cracking a smile) If she's genuinely interested then she will most likely grab your arm again, this time more firmly while smiling.

-3. Remember some women go out on dates with guys that they aren't very interested in just to have a sucker pay her way the whole night. If you run into this, then try to ditch her right away. It is not uncommon. Simpy tell her you're going because there is no chemistry, if she has at least a small bit of interest then she will most likely beg you to stay and you may at least get a kiss out of it, which can lead to more.(You can usually tell if you are with one of these girls by her not letting you hold her hand when walking.)

-4. A girl tells you she is a fan of a sport's team when on a date: You simply tell her, "It's not gonna work." Then turn-around or stand up, if sitting, then say, "See ya." as though you are leaving. Most of the time they will find this funny, if they are laughing then turn-around, smile and rejoin them. If not proceed like you are leaving and go to the bathroom for the same time it would take to piss.

Most likely she will text you. Just text her back saying you had to use the men's room. She will most likely find it amusing the way you chose to excuse yourself for the restroom.

If not, come back shortly as though you went and see her waiting there with a smile. If this happens, most likely she knew you were bluffing.(This goes back to 'being willing to lose the girl before getting her', displaying this will make you much more interesting to her.)

-5. An easy one I like to use: Let's say a girl get's dressed up to come see me. I'll tell her something like.

Me: "You look nice." Her:"Thanks." Me: "You better look nice if you're going out with me."(look at her and say with a smile in a joking demeanor) Her: laughs

-So those are just a few that I have had success with. Once you've got a good idea how it works then you can get creative with it. You will read about this strategy in virtually every Pick up artist book that you choose to read. So enjoy and use it wisely. Good luck.

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