Finding Someone Compatible:

I figured I might share my own personal beliefs on how I choose my mates. For me this is a crucial task. I don't like being in a relationship where I feel like my needs are being neglected.

When it comes to being in a relationship, I don't see the point of being involved with someone who is going to hold out on sexual interaction for one. I also don't think it is necessary to be with someone who is going to cause me an unnecessary amount of stress. This means excessive complaining, flirting with other men while in front of me, calling or texting excessively, etc.

I don't think anyone should go through this, man or woman. I don't think it's healthy and I don't think it's appropriate.

Loyalty to me is standing by me, genuinely wanting to be with me and allowing the time we have together to be of value.

I feel that these days many women have been under the impression that they have an ordained gift that we as men must work for. I do not disagree with this, however I feel that I personally am not going invest my time and efforts without playing the field beforehand.

I love women and believe that they are precious and delicately beautiful creatures. Yet if I am going to praise them and show my undeniable appreciation then I am going to make sure that I have made the appropriate choice.

For me, choosing the right mate involves many things. Some of the most important entail:

-Finding a woman who genuinely respects me and wants to be with me. This is by far the most important.

-A woman who is going to have sufficient amount of self control when it comes to overcoming our human nature for desire. Which includes not engaging another man flirtatiously when in my presence, due to respect.

-I also believe that it's necessary that my woman act with dignity, have confidence, elegance and class.

-I would never stay with a mate who denies me sexual interaction simply for a means of having control.

-I would not be with her is she likes making excuses not to have sexual interaction. I understand feeling sick or tired one day and needing rest. However if this becomes a habit then I won't see the need to be with them any longer. As I am a sexual being and expect to be with the same.

Sexual Compatibility:

Another thing I might cover is the ability to satisfy a woman. Now for me, I have been able to satisfy some quite well naturally and others not as much.

I believe it is just as necessary for a woman to enjoy this as much as the man. If this is difficult then I don't believe in investing much time in further bonding.

Eventually the sexual interaction will become like a chore for the woman or the man, it will become dull and the bond will die.

I remember once reading an interview with Monica Bellucci. She stated that she doesn't expect anyone to be completely committed within the first 2 months of bonding. I absolutely agree. I think it takes 2 months to internalize the sufficient amount of information about a person and realize their behavior patterns so I may determine whether it corresponds with my needs, lifestyle and viceversa.

I don't see a problem ending what I have with this person anytime before this 2 months or even after, if it is not going smoothly and comfortably. I think it is better to end it when the red flags appear rather than letting the forming relationship drag on for a longer uneccessary amount of time.

Some men go their entire life before they meet the ideal woman who genuinely loves them and appreciates them as they should. I think this is what most of us are searching for deep down.

When ending a relationship, I advise telling them that you would like to stay friends if they'd like. Tell them that you have goals and feel that being in a relationship is distracting you from focusing all your efforts on those goals. Be respectful and mature about it.

So getting down to it, don't ever sell yourself short. Don't put up with any nonsense and keep looking. Always go for the best looking woman around. Don't ever be afraid to approach. Pursue mercilessly and shamelessly.

The man who goes after every women he desires is bound to find the woman of his dreams much quicker than the man who chooses to sit in wait and expect her to just fall into his lap.

So there's my take once again. Don't give up hope and good luck.

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