So i was a very weird guy but started to change a lot in the past 2 years. Started working out, buying nice clothes. I would say i went from a 4 to a good 8. I started getting some girls in the last 6 months. Even hot ones but i still dont feel like im goot at this. I want to get better every single fucking day at this. I go to the club every weekend. I go there with my friends and dance and have fun.
So my problem. I see a lot of girls checking me out, probably because im tall and relativly muscular. Yesterday even a girl said to her friend "damn this guy is sexy" passing me. I know i am good looking but when i go to the girls that check me out a lot i seem to be doing something wrong. I get a LOT of rejections. And its because i worry so much about approaching them. I dont know what to do. Should i introduce myself? LIKE WHAT THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? They stand in circles with other guys that get aggressive when you approach the girl; they dance with other girls and its hard to apprach them from the front. There was a girl yesterday that was dancing in front of me and looked backwards at least 6 times looking at me. Then i walked up to her and introduced myself to her but not confident enough.
Reddit: GIve me a way to do a confident approach. I worry too much about it. I got really confident in the last 2 years but i suck at this. The girls are looking at me like "approach me" and then i fuck up.
EDIT: ONe thing: Im a lot better when i got 2/3 drinks. Im way more cocky then and seem more confident because i dont give a fuck BUT; I dont want to drink anymore because i want to get girls being myself and not depent on alcohol
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