Question about confident girls teasing and doing shit tests

chikinpickle · 2012-10-23T17:24:39+00:00

HB: Hey will you go and get me jack in the box

Me: Nah, I can't drive with alcohol in my system

=/=

later

HB: Hey, so when are you getting me that jack in the box?

Me: Never, it's not happening.

She told me later I'm the only guy that's ever said no to her. Never underestimate the power of no! Just look at her for a second, pause and deadpan "no".

shifgrethor · 2012-10-24T04:37:15+00:00

"Nah, I don't think it would go well with my dress" with a teasing smile

puaCurveBall · 2012-10-23T16:06:19+00:00

This is just a shit-test, she wants you to answer by showing your own confidence and dominance.

The answer is same for all shit-test, hold your frame, be non-reactive and assert your own dominance.... I mentioned two ways in my response to katalinda, but anything should do... depends on exact situation.

Personally I love challenges like these, because it is when I get to show off my dominance and make her feel comfortable that I'm in charge.

Caveat: If she pulls this and then isn't playful back, doesn't let you take control of situation... then drop her. That generally isn't the case, so I'm operating under assumption that she does in fact respect you as a man.

55848g4843 · 2012-10-23T19:31:16+00:00

lol I would just start going through the purse jokingly until she gives a little scream and takes it back

ThEWaFfLe101 · 2012-10-25T00:34:54+00:00

This reminds me of something that absolutely infuriates me; when girls ask me to take pictures of them and their friends.

HB: "Hey can you take a picture of us?" Me: "Sorry, I'm not that kind of guy."

Can be met with a negative response, but it displays dominance and she'll pass the camera off to some other AFC.

Memitim901 · 2012-10-23T16:02:57+00:00

Drop that shit on the fucking ground, eye contact and arch an eyebrow in challenge. You're a man not a fucking purse holder.

puaCurveBall · 2012-10-23T15:40:47+00:00

What a bitch!! Why are you dating her? Dont confuse confidence for bluntness. A confident women would never say that to a friend and have you over hear that. She's not confident what so ever. If she needs a "bitch" she is dependent and needy.

Title	Question about confident girls teasing and doing shit tests
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Comments	19
Date	October 23, 2012 3:31 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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