Question about difficulty making conversation

nolk · 2012-10-17T21:09:34+00:00

I'm on the same boat. I'm trying to get better at it though.

Practice practice practice. There's tons of good advice around here. For example, start talking about something you're interested in, hear what she has to say, pick up something she said and escalate from there. Also avoid short answer questions, instead of "do you like your classes?" ask "what's your favorite thing about your classes?". Shit like that.

I know it may be harder than it sounds at first, I too struggle a lot with keeping conversation, but just practice and learn from your mistakes, I guess.

Askquestionsbro · 2012-10-18T00:49:05+00:00

Practice conversational threading. Also bring up random shit, anything. I did that today and it started a decent conversation which I expanded using conversation threading.

Naga14 · 2012-10-18T04:23:36+00:00

Change questions to "accusations." Example:

Where are you from? --> You seem like you are from out of town...

Makes the conversation more fun, playful, and there are more chances for banter.

0b4m4 · 2012-10-18T00:39:35+00:00

use this moment of awkwardness to assess the conversation and decide where you want to take it next. its your game now.

MyOwnPath · 2012-10-18T02:54:40+00:00

Not an expert by any means, but from my limited experience this seems like a good way to do. If you're talking about anything but get stuck, look for a way to ask who, what, when, where, how, or why. They're all great ways to get her explaining something else, and women love to talk when somebody is willing to listen and appears to be interested. Also, try and stay positive. Avoid negative topics like things you hate, or topics that can cause divide like politics. Be sociable and try your best not to put her in an uncomfortable position.

A1R80RN3 · 2012-10-19T00:03:52+00:00

although a beginner I'm pretty sure I've got this part down pat; just admit it. I've found that telling the girl, "Uh, and now I'm out of shit (or stuff) to talk about. I think it's your turn to pick a subject!"

Now you've turned the tables and put her in the hot seat and bought yourself a few precious seconds to come up with something witty, funny, or what have you.

Title	Question about difficulty making conversation
Author	usausa12
Upvotes	18
Comments	6
Date	October 17, 2012 8:18 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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