Longtime lurker here, but decided to make my first post.

You know, when they say, you should approach women without expectations. As in "expect nothing" and the rejection won't hurt as much.

But when i approach women in the clubs (or anywhere), I (and i think most of the other men) have that deep expectation for something more, something intimate, as in getting to know her better, or making out, and eventually sex.

How to approach without expecting, even though you do, if you know what i mean? Thanks for your answers in advance :) P.S : grammar