My experience with seduction is there is a delicate balance between expressing your desire for a girl and showing that you don't need her. This is discussed a lot with verbal seduction but less with physical seduction. My question is, how do you show desire and assertativeness during kino without coming across as too eager? Say I am chilling with a girl and I put my arm around her while we are watching a movie, pulling her close to me. Sometimes I get the subtle vibe that the girl feels a little smothered, even when her outward mood seems chill. What are some solutions? One trick I heard somewhere is to put the girl's hand on your arm and say "that's all you get."