I know many of you will say only text to set up the date, but either I am not doing something right or it just doesn't work. The last few times I have gotten a girls number I have tried to set up the date as soon as possible through text, but usually the girl would just tell me no and not give me a reason why. Before I would text a girl for about a week or so then ask her out and this would usually work. So should I just do what works for me which is text back and forth for a week or so or should I just go straight for the date set up the day I get her number?