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Question regarding relationships and cheating

Paarth_r · 2020-05-25T17:33:21+00:00

So I am in a relationship. Before I was In a relationship, I often hooked up with girls who were in a relationship. It's going great but how do I get...

Paarth_r

May 25, 2020

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Title	Question regarding relationships and cheating
Author	Paarth_r
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	May 25, 2020 5:33 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gqfafs/question_regarding_relationships_and_cheating/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/question-regarding-relationships-and-cheating.1496249 https://theredarchive.com/post/1496249

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[–]dickstellar 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I think firstly you have to understand that it can happen to anyone. You can be the best person in the world and it can still happen. I say this not to scare you but to comfort you.

A car crash can happen to anyone, should this mean you should be constantly terrified of it? No. You can take the steps to be a better driver but it can still happen. Accepting it and being able to live freely is key.

Secondly the worst thing you can do is worry about it, because it can become a self fulfilling prophecy. I think people try to be what you expect of them, and if they feel you think they are cheating or can cheat on you, it might even push them to do it.

So that means no snooping or interrogating or any weird shit. On top of that we can often find things that aren’t really there, if we’re looking for them. Don’t poison your mind.

Trust your instincts but also remember when they have friends of the opposite sex you might judge them too hard. Keep yourself in check.

Love can’t work without vulnerability. Trust in yourself and them. If it ever happens, fuck it, you’ll come back stronger.

[–]Paarth_r 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link