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First of all you’re the fucking G. Yes it definitely makes you more attractive in other girls eyes. It’s simple pre-selection. How this translates to your chances with multiple girls within your social circle is a bit more complicated. Rationally it should put a girl off you because they don’t want to be a second choice, right? It might honestly. That makes it harder for you to build some sort of relationship with the second one if they have that mental resistance. But I don’t think that applies…
/r/seduction18/07/20 01:32 AM
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I think most comments here have it covered. The outcome independence to do and say things because they make you feel good, rather than for other people. It’s definitely a mind-frame that you can get to through practice I’d like to add that I notice a huge difference in how I feel towards other people depending on whether I’m working out or not. Another thing is working towards your career, whether that being studying or reading books that relate to it or whatever. Feeling like you’re following y…
/r/seduction17/07/20 11:02 PM
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I’ve never heard of anyone being repulsed by someone’s legs?
/r/seduction12/07/20 12:13 PM
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Like STD_Tyler said watching really funny stand up or comedies (I like ‘friends’) that have that kind of ridiculous sense of humour can bring out the fun in you. You’re the average of your 5 closest friends.. that statement includes the things that really shape your personality. I also feel that a lot of your mindset should revolve around “what would make this a good story to tell to someone” that means changing mindset from “It went okay but she kind of reacted like this” TO “it was hilarious I…
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:41 PM
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Honestly if you don’t actually like the company of women you don’t deserve to have sex with them. If you’re gonna have that attitude just buy prostitutes
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:27 PM
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I kind of disagree, I think the attractiveness gained from boldness outweighs the comfort built by playing it slow. A lot of truth to what scumby is saying but for me it’s more of a finding out how dark humour can be, as opposed how much you can tease her. If you’re being a prick you’re being a prick no matter how well you know someone... if you tease playfully it shouldn’t matter how much you know someone.
/r/seduction10/07/20 10:05 PM
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Sometimes I like to text girls for the sake of wanting to just chat with them. I don’t see anything wrong with it. I feel like younger girls want to text more and include that in relationship/comfort building. It’s nice to try get them to meet you or else you’re just holding your dick in your hand, but I see nothing wrong with keeping relationships alive with just little back and fourths.
/r/seduction05/07/20 11:47 AM
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Too true man. I always remember the general consensus in the pickup community being ‘don’t take it personally’ I remember one good example: “A girl could have gotten a phone call that her grandmother just died, and you go up and say hi and she says FUCK OFF. You shouldn’t take it personally because you don’t know where her mind is.” What I hear nowadays from female friends is that waaay more guys than I would have ever thought are calling them bitches and stuff for not meeting up or sending nude…
/r/seduction05/07/20 11:43 AM
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What about you’re meeting a buddy and he’s running late?
/r/seduction04/07/20 09:04 PM
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I feel you man. The problem here is that you don’t own her. She’s allowed to do what she wants and you shouldn’t feel upset with her in any way for sleeping with someone else. I’m guessing you feel this way already, so you should be able to reverse it and treat yourself the same. You can get so hooked up on a girl, who likes you enough to sleep with you but is still looking for someone else. With all your eggs in one basket... especially a basket like this particular girl, chances are you’re set…
/r/seduction03/07/20 02:42 PM
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Once you get the ‘validation’ that you are worthy of sex you’re more sure of yourself because you’ve done it before. A girl not liking you is easier rationalised as the girl being the problem, or you two just not clicking. When you haven’t had much experience it’s easier to think you are the problem. Being sure of yourself is pretty key to attracting women and you don’t need to have had much experience to learn that. Own who you are. Be passionate about what you are passionate about. Show intere…
/r/seduction03/07/20 01:15 AM
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It’s not a sure thing, some people just hold eye contact. That said, I think you can tell she is into you by the vibe she’s putting off, that’s why you posted! It sounds like a green light to me man, trust your instinct, you got this.
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:30 PM
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I think you should focus on learning the signals. “ioi’s” in old pickup language. You might find some good things googling that term. You don’t want to be too bold physically if you’re not sure if they want it or not. Look up kino escalation as well. It’s basically being physical with girls from touching their shoulder while laughing.... all the way to having sex with them. A “ladder” of physicality, if you will. That has a lot to do with telling if a girl likes you or not. You need to be able t…
/r/seduction30/06/20 12:29 AM
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That video looked better than it actually was. The main points I remember was “don’t hate her” and “you’re both different people now so don’t cling to what was”. The reason I joined reddit was to post a breakup step-by-step progress and advice post. Looking back on it now I was a bit insane as I was writing it but I still think there’s solid advice in it.
/r/seduction10/06/20 10:15 AM
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I feel like girls who put their snapchat in their dating bios have shitloads of guys texting them and don’t really appreciate individual conversations because there’s so many. I might be overgeneralising
/r/seduction26/05/20 11:20 AM
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I second this, especially fixing their hair. It can often go unnoticed
/r/seduction26/05/20 11:17 AM
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I think firstly you have to understand that it can happen to anyone. You can be the best person in the world and it can still happen. I say this not to scare you but to comfort you. A car crash can happen to anyone, should this mean you should be constantly terrified of it? No. You can take the steps to be a better driver but it can still happen. Accepting it and being able to live freely is key. Secondly the worst thing you can do is worry about it, because it can become a self fulfilling proph…
/r/seduction25/05/20 08:39 PM
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I simply just don’t do it, it’s not a good idea. You can’t really afford to get rejected you need a certain amount of professionalism. Let your nonverbal communication do the talking, but chances are it won’t amount to anything more than indirect flirting. And girls aren’t likely to make much of a move. If you do go for it let me know how it goes... but for me I’m very conscious about keeping my job over getting laid off customers at work. What I do is good eye contact, maybe a little tease or c…
/r/seduction25/05/20 11:53 AM
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If I stay inside for a few days I get a bit rusty, comes back within a day or 2. Haven’t done anything long term though
/r/seduction22/05/20 04:45 PM
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I think the bigger mindset is it shouldn’t matter to you ASKING the question. You shouldn’t see it as this sneaky thing I think you should just see it as natural conversation. Outright asking a girl if she has a boyfriend really shouldn’t be any problem. But for the sake of argument idk maybe “does your boyfriend know you do/say/eat/ whatever the fuck”. Even better tease her “wow I feel sorry for your boyfriend if you do/like/say xyz... wait do you have a boyfriend?” But seriously dude you can j…
/r/seduction19/05/20 10:54 PM
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One you get with girls taller than you, you realise it really doesn’t matter. Girls will say you’re too short but it honestly has no substance whatsoever if your vibe is there. It’s just another shit test.
/r/seduction19/05/20 10:46 PM
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Great post man!
/r/seduction11/05/20 05:31 PM
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Not all girls are looking for love. Girls respect transparency without arrogantly bragging. They have options too. Get a fucking grip dude. This sub is filled with idiots
/r/seduction23/04/20 10:35 AM
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Quality reply, thank you sir
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:08 PM
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I think I need to learn some picking up dudes content first
/r/seduction10/04/20 10:07 AM
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Fair point, it’s an outdated term
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:53 PM
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Can we just point out that being a PUA doesn’t mean you are a cult leader or try get people to buy stuff through shitty reddit links? That’s what you call sleazy business men
/r/seduction01/04/20 05:02 PM
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The question is can flirting be interpreted as being an asshole? Is picking fun at a girl technically being an asshole? Being really nice to girls and just complimenting as the only way of flirting doesn’t make someone a ladies man. You’re gonna need some sort of sexual tension for attraction. Women deserve respect but acting like a pushover and a hype man for them isn’t going to get you laid
/r/seduction01/04/20 12:41 PM
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Yeah man fuck that, I guess it’s technically still a shit test but calling someone ugly is just straight up rude. I think your response is perfect, you don’t want them type of girls anyway. I get girls telling me I’m short and I’ll say “yeah lets have midget babies” but if they were like “fuck off you’re short” it’s legit funny how bitchy they are, I’d do the exact same you did
/r/seduction29/03/20 02:15 PM
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Maybe it’s not for everyone. You’ve mentioned your career, I hope you like what you do. Even if you like it I assume there’s some boring parts or parts you wouldn’t choose to do, but you do it because it’s necessary. And because there isn’t really have a say in the matter, you probably don’t have any problem doing it, maybe you thrive on the challenge, maybe you just instinctively do the harder parts without getting bogged down. If you really want to meet women you have to appreciate them for wh…
/r/seduction29/03/20 01:39 PM
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You can’t someone who won’t help themselves. Don’t learn that the hard way. I wouldn’t say don’t get involved with her because that’s not really fair, but I would say keep your eyes open for something else and definitely don’t get emotionally invested before you figure her out fully.
/r/seduction28/03/20 05:34 PM
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Probably self esteem. Here’s another idea - she has a past of hurting men either idk cheating or just being horrible to them, and she recognises it, feels guilty about it and thinks it’s something she can’t change. I’m gonna say self esteem but that’s also a possibility. Just thread carefully, either way this statement shows she has some sort of a problem
/r/seduction28/03/20 12:30 PM
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Wise words dude, thank you
/r/seduction28/03/20 01:39 AM
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Very true man, the only thing I’d say to that is even a year or 2 ago I’d be afraid very afraid of getting rejected by a girl, nevermind 100, the long term thinking wouldn’t enter my mind. I’m sure a lot of guys think like that too. For my question though, let’s say you just go direct with your friend and basically say “I like you let’s do something”. The rejection itself isn’t scary, but more-so I wouldn’t want there to be awkwardness. In my mind right now it’s “it won’t be awkward if you don’t…
/r/seduction27/03/20 10:50 PM
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“I hope you get to heaven 30 minutes before the devil knows you’re dead” I’ve seen an interpretation of this proverb which is a unique spin on addiction. If you declare “I’m going to quit alcohol”, the actions you take to do that is a negative and you’re trying to force it away. If you simply don’t drink, take it day by day, like just don’t do it but it’s not like you’re making a decision to not do it.. but that strong temptation comes from the resistance in your mind. Counting days does it for …
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:38 PM
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I feel you with the horndog vibe, I have to fap to stop myself from banging girls I wouldn’t usually. It seems like all I ever talk about nowadays is masturbating but for real dude masturbate less and/or when you do masturbate try get a good 30-40 minutes out of it. It’s just about learning the restraint, basically subconsciously teaching you that sex isn’t a race, but more a marathon.
/r/seduction23/03/20 11:10 AM
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I think it’s a very toxic trait to be fishing for compliments. From my experience girls who do it aren’t the sharpest tool in the shed. I got fed up once and argued with a girl about how she feeds of external validation and don’t fish with me blah blah.. not my proudest moment, they’re not going to get it. Nowadays I simply say “be kind to yourself”. If it’s an actually cool chick who is just expressing an insecurity rather than fishing for a compliment, I’ll give it to her. Don’t lie, if she ha…
/r/seduction20/03/20 12:49 AM
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Not particularly but then again my toxic masculinity can’t stand girls being in charge Asides from that girls just talking in Spanish or french is such a turn on.
/r/seduction19/03/20 11:00 PM
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Call me a romantic but its possible to have a ‘girlfriend experience’ for a night with a fuck buddy, or even a random girl.. and then just dip. Like I find it enjoyable to be actual friends with them. On top of that sex doesn’t have to be put your dick in this hole for 10 min. Okay fair enough a lot of girls really aren’t exactly pornstars in bed. But who’s to say we are either? There’s a lot of value in changing stuff up, trying new things, making sex into a kind of art? If you get me.. instead…
/r/seduction18/03/20 10:02 PM
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Fucks 2 cute girls and becomes a spokesperson: I do agree with you in a way, but I also agree with that comment that if you treated them like human beings it’s way better. I can’t outright disagree with your point because there is a hint of truth to it, but you’re so set in your belief that you’re bordering, if not over the line of delusion.
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:37 PM
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Yeah man that book is what got me into this years ago. It’s not just ‘here’s some pick up guys’, it’s about the nitty gritty reality of the lifestyle they have, the wins and losses, and of course the development of Neil himself. You experience his mentality shifting throughout. Very well written book, super entertaining
/r/seduction18/03/20 12:20 PM
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It’s like how when you get drunk it just makes a lot more sense in your head that girls are interested in you and open to sex. I forgot to do the deed for a night or 2 in a row and Im 4 or 5 days in just keeping the momentum. Showing interest in girls doesn’t feel as ‘risky’ mentally as it would when I’m watching porn daily (or even more). Like it just “makes sense” to do, no alcohol needed. That being said, if you use porn constructively, say you don’t let yourself get overly excited, and just …
/r/seduction16/03/20 01:25 PM
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How old are you? I don’t see how you can commit to a girl without having had sex, unless you’re 17 or under? If I were you I just wouldn’t be committed to her until you start having sex. How are you going to know how you vibe with her in that situation? What if it’s bad sex?
/r/seduction09/03/20 09:01 PM
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Treat sex as not a big deal. It’s not, but they don’t know that yet. A few years back I asked a girl if she was sure I was the right one, she said yes. We ended up together for a long time. Fast forward to two weeks ago, a girl said she would do it but it would obviously mean a lot more to her than to me. I refused this girl as I know it would just be a hit it and quit it for me, whereas it’s something that sticks with her. I know this is about how to get sex, not how to refuse sex, but just be …
/r/seduction09/03/20 01:29 PM
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A guy isn’t going to spend a year on you waiting for you to break up with your boyfriend if he just wants sex. I think he’s into you. Just experience it, try not to overthink it. You’ll soon see where he’s at, no need to fuck anything up.
/r/seduction29/12/19 09:23 PM
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Thanks for that man. If they were single I would, or i have gotten with some when they were single and now they’re not... but when they’re in relationships I put “the goal of getting with them” out of my mind. Sometimes there is no group and it’s a one on one interaction, and the natural flow of flirting (I say flirting lightly because I tease my guy friends and whatnot, but wouldn’t call it flirting) makes me think like if this was my girlfriend I wouldn’t want this happening.. and I step back.…
/r/seduction04/12/19 02:41 PM
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I think you’ve got it down. Judging by the post your vibe seems to be perfect. Spend time analysing your approaches. What went good, what went bad. It’s all about polishing your skills.
/r/seduction04/12/19 01:25 AM
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Watch comedians and comedies that you admire the sense of humour. It rubs off on you pretty quick
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:37 PM
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Imagine if you’re just sitting having a coffee and some guy starts chatting up the girl next to you. It’s curiosity more than anything. They may be judging you but they could as easily be admiring your steel balls
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:32 PM
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This girl at the club a few weeks started choking and pushing me and stuff. I grabbed her by her hair and told her to stop, but it just turned her on more. I told her I was 10 years older than I am and that got her going even more. Then I convinced her that I was gay but she loved the idea of banging a gay guy too..
/r/seduction19/11/19 11:11 AM
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The importance of video! If it were me I wouldn’t notice too much about the leg crossing, I’m sure we all have something similar but without a camera how will we know? Good job man great persistence you’re doing great
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:12 PM
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A girl is social proof, get girls and introduce them to her. Get more and introduce them. Do it as many times are you want. You can own the party rather than looking for it. Girls think you’re not weird if you’re with a girl, to them subconsciously you’re proven not to be a weirdo at the least, maybe they’ll even think you’re banging her which will probably make them find you more attractive. If your girl is emotionally cold why hang out with her in the first place? If she has a few drinks to ge…
/r/seduction05/11/19 12:39 AM
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Yeah I agree with you 100%
/r/seduction19/10/19 11:34 AM
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You’re so right, kind of a blackmail undertone to what you’re saying though? I really don’t understand why they’re so hush hush and trying to erase peak rsd.
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:36 PM
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A rich man doesn’t need to tell people he’s rich
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:28 PM
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I want what you’re smoking
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:13 PM
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I don’t know if it’s the same for you but for me I don’t see myself as a straight introvert or an extrovert, but it’s more to do with my environment. If I stay at home for a few days without contact I don’t really want to talk to people, and in contrast if I hang out with friends all the time for a few days it’s like social interaction charges me. If you get into that mode of loving to talk to people you will find ways to keep talking to people, it’s momentum. Asides from that physical exercise …
/r/seduction18/10/19 11:02 PM
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Sounds like regular conversation to me
/r/seduction18/10/19 05:43 PM
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Very good insight. A LOT of girls seem to think simply giving sex without being a giver in bed is the reward. Can’t stand it, huge turn off.
/r/seduction15/10/19 04:50 PM
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There’s still the element of keeping guys interested after getting with them
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:22 PM
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Girls like sex too.
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:24 PM
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I second the boyfriend thing. Even like she could have gotten a boyfriend or gone back to a boyfriend and cut ties
/r/seduction12/10/19 06:24 PM
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I dare you to try go for the daughter through her
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:30 PM
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You’ve crossed off another girl you don’t have that natural strong chemistry with.
/r/seduction11/10/19 02:32 PM
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Forget about it. Imagine how you’d feel if it was her wanting a threesome with another guy. I know we don’t find other guys hot like girls find each other, but we both feel jealousy the same way. I’d like to stress that when it comes up she needs to know the threesome is good not because another girl is there, but the fact that she wants another girl. She might have second thoughts by thinking she’s not good enough if you want another girl, so the more you press for it the more insecure she migh…
/r/seduction09/10/19 04:54 PM
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Literally same man, presence is hard to find. I’m hoping the more eye contact becomes an unconscious habit the more I can think about other shit
/r/seduction09/10/19 04:20 PM
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She just asked how old I am
/r/seduction09/10/19 04:09 PM
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Ah yes the old self pity routine. I wonder why it didn’t work?
/r/seduction09/10/19 03:37 PM
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I did this the last day. My body was a bit too tense meeting a new girl so my emotions weren’t conveyed to their full extent. What in my head was a funny tease came out as a dry statement. If this is the case literally loosen up, stretch in front of the girl, jump up and down idk, anything to loosen up.
/r/seduction09/10/19 02:55 PM
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Very well thought out answer, thanks
/r/seduction07/10/19 10:36 PM
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I get what you mean. Do whatever you feel comfortable with. You’re going to have to show interest regardless. If you’re more comfortable sending something on the app first then go for it. I don’t think it’s a make or break situation with one right or wrong answer, but approaching irl is generally the better option. If it were me I’d just get friendly with her irl and then suddenly “remember her from somewhere”, “oh yeah I think I saw you on Christian mingle” ask if she’s got any luck from it, et…
/r/seduction01/10/19 11:38 AM
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It’s better to try it in real life than dating apps. You’re one of the, if not the only guy to do it. On dating apps you’re in a crowd. That being said dating apps are debatably better to start something with a girl you already know but you were both unsure if you liked eachother. If she ‘showed up’ as in you matched then message her. If she ‘showed up’ as in you saw her on the app but you didn’t match then I’d say go for it in real life. You know she’s looking for someone. You’ll stand out.
/r/seduction30/09/19 10:35 PM
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That’s the goal
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:15 PM
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This isn’t a ‘soi’ or whatever but if you want something for kissing I remember mystery once said something like: “Do you want to kiss me?” If she says yes or idk, kiss her If she says no, say “you just looked like you wanted to”
/r/seduction26/09/19 10:44 PM
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Honestly I’d just approach with literally what you said in your post. Ask her if she’s new because you don’t recognise her. Tell her she looks too interesting to be working there, something playful. Asides from that I’d just say don’t shit where you eat.. with a ballsy direct approach about how hot she is that if it doesn’t come off you’ll feel weird with each other.
/r/seduction26/09/19 09:13 PM
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From your two “creepy girl” posts I’m starting to think they’re not actually trying to approach you but you think they are.
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:51 PM
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