When I cold approach girls I go direct and if I get rejected it’s alright because I don’t know them well.

When I go for girls who are my friends I slow play it and the attraction builds to the point where we either get comfortable showing interest in each other or we get drunk and end up in bed together. Like there’s not really a chance of rejection if you read their vibe well and keep a decent pace.

What I’m wondering is what if you skip the slow play?

For example I’m interested in my friend who I don’t get to see that often. I see it in her that she’s probably SOMEWHAT into me, we tease, etc.

I know that if we were at a party there’s an alright chance something might happen, but at this point asking her to do something with me is bordering between “ballsy confident” and “stupidly ruining the sexual tensions”

So my question for you guys is have you got rejected by a friend, and did it ruin the friendship or sexual tension?