DISCLAIMER: Don’t start rejecting girls for the sake of it. It can easily be because of a mental barrier of YOU just fearing you can’t getting the job done.

For context - I’ve been crazy about this girl for so long, haven’t felt that shit in years. I said fuck it and asked her on a date, it went very well. After that things went downhill quick. Flaking, ridiculously long replies, etc. It got to the third “next time!” and I said let’s just be friends.

I’m fully aware that I am the one who basically got rejected and I’m leaving my ego at the door because there’s a big point to be made about me bitching out because I don’t want to feel rejected.

THAT IN CONSIDERATION:

  • Inner Game

We chase women and we often have to barrel through a lot of bullshit to get them. However, there becomes a point where you have to think about how much you value yourself. Maybe you can just dog it out and keep going until there’s nothing left, but a man who places a high value on himself has to say no at some point. No matter how much I badly wanted that girl, it’s hugely liberating to burn the bridges, even more liberating the more you want someone. The willingness to let a girl go is key to how you project yourself.

  • Outer Game

What you have basically done is told the girl you’re not going to put up with their antics. In-between the lines of ‘I think we should leave it at that’ is ‘I don’t take this shit’. You can’t be bitter about it, you just convey your value. Don’t fucking be like ‘were never talking again’, make it so you’re able to be friends with them. Female friends are important.

This is only a theory but I feel as though really putting a foot down to a girl can make her respect you, especially one who is beautiful and probably doesn’t get rejected that much. I don’t know how well this works like in my case if she isn’t that into you maybe she may not care all that much... but to say it doesn’t get under a girls skin is also a bit far fetched.