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[–]HindOp -2 points-1 points0 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Not giving a shit how the chick reacts is a terrible idea, and thinking that it's a permissible, socially-acceptable behavior will lead you into eventual trouble and a slippery psychological slope.
With that disclaimer out of the way, there's nothing wrong with making your intentions totally clear--if anything, it's a quick way to gauge the response of a woman. It tends to work on certain types of women, generally ones who are confident and know what they want (mental dimes)--it works less well on younger women with less experience and women who lack self-confidence. However, its effectiveness also depends on your own root security and ability to convey what you mean in a way that isn't overtly aggressive, but steadfast and confident. The most important thing is calibration and being aware of what's happening, and how to react in that case.
[–]Pyro636 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think OP may have meant something different by saying "not giving a shit". It's not like the whole IDGAF attitude is about not caring whether your being an asshole or whatever. It's about not being reactive to someone else's behavior. This way, when some girl your talking to says something dumb like "sorry, I'm too good looking for you..." instead of getting down on yourself you lean comically far back and give out a big huge belly laugh, because you know you are dope as fuck and what she says or thinks can never change that.
[–]HindOp 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You might be right! The part about OP's post that spooks me is that he gives no shits and "consistently escalates"--but we can leave it to him to clarify.
[–]soapjackal 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
no means no. im not a fucking idiot.
however girls dont want to look like whores so they often give me ton of shit when i talk to them in public, but the next day theyll be sucking my dick. Im authentic. Pyro636 said it right.
id say that reacting to your circumstances is a bad idea in terms of getting girls since you lose control. In the end it is honest and not time wasting. I prefer it since you arent playing games and anybody whose used it knows its not being an asshole rapist. It just my ego isnt fed by a set, i could give a fuck if she likes me off the bat, i just want to be true to my needs and desires
if she wants me, she can have me
if she doesnt, i thank her and find another girl
i dont try and change myself to get every girl. You can think of it as a less obtuse style of 'gangsta' game. The direct and ultra sexual style, is more of what i was talking about, if anybody had exp that they could talk about and share what they do or dont like about it.
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