After going through hell in my personal life and overcoming life challenges such as dealing with abusive people, overcoming addictions and childhood trauma, I’m now on a path of becoming a high value person. I wake up early every day, am in shape, have my own high class place and have my career set.

So now that I’ve done this I’ve started to focus more on dating but I see now my standards have raised Significantly and my mindset seems to have shifted. Today for the first time ever I rejected a solid 7.5 who I’ve been talking to the past few weeks. She had a sweet and charming personality that i vibed with but had serious drug addiction issues and is a retail worker at the age of 28. At first I was going to try to have sex with her and give her a chance to prove herself but now I’ve just completely loss attraction and motivation to move things forward after personally getting to know her more.

The other day I nexted a girl I hooked up with because she didn’t understand a joke I was telling her and responded too seriously. It overall showed she was socially incompetent but I tried giving her the chance to recover. Instead, she realized what hapened and acted insecure about it so I just ghosted her.

Anyways, I’ve noticed that now I seem to naturally emulate behaviors of a genuinely high value person, whereas previously I would be jumping on anything that found me attractive and fake it to get laid. But it’s also kind of hard to believe that this is congruent to who I am since i only recently started to become high value and I haven’t had any F-closes or new girlfriends yet that have shown me what my value actually is. What are your opinions on this? Am I overestimating my worth? Or does this sound like I’m making genuine growth?