Random approach vs. organized approach

cheddarchexmix · 2010-12-09T22:50:30+00:00

If you practice talking to everyone for long enough, you'll find that your AA goes away with women, because you approach the conversation the same way as you do with any random stranger. I never have an idea of what I'm going to talk about. I have lots of stories from my life, but I don't use "routines" or canned material. It does help some beginners though.

sbmccl00 · 2011-01-17T22:46:44+00:00

I got a Tip for ya... As a girl, if a guy coming right up to me to say something, unless its real funny and I find the guy attractive I don't really pay much attention (not that I am a C U Next Tuesday or anything, but I am pretty attractive so get approached all night and it gets old) Buuut.. If I happen to run out of my drink and go to the bar to get one, as most people know in clubs, or bars, on Friday or Sat night the bartenders are pretty slow to serve. I usually end up talking to someone waiting in line or at the bar. If you position your self so you are at the bar, next to the line, then you can talk to the girls waiting in line, usually they are away from their friends, and they are bored because they are waiting for their drink... and you can tell if she isn't interested because she quickly pays and dashes, but if that is the case, it wont be to much longer till another babe is around. Also you come off confident because you said something first, but not cocky because you didn't stroll right up. Just don't offer to pay for her first drink, if she gets that drink and stays around, then offer to pay for her second drink. ( if you pay for the first she might see you as desperate or a pushover, and likely to take you up on the offer then dash)

Title	Random approach vs. organized approach
Author	janderson_123
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	December 9, 2010 10:45 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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