Really confused - Help

This_Mode · 2020-08-03T06:39:12+00:00

So as someone else said it sounds like she is just there for attention. But to really test whether this is true see if she will do some type of other thing with you outside of texting. Like a Skype call or a phone call. Like if she says yes, she goes through with it, and you enjoy it, then it might've seriously been she was just really busy and now shes starting to be free.

My intuition is saying that she is just on tinder (like a lot of woman) for the attention. She has no real desire to meet up with you. Like she had plenty of opportunities and while I dont know your specific covid region I bet you did have time to meet up in the last few months. think about it this way if she started getting text from brad bitt or will smith or chris hensworth, do you think she would be saying that she cant meet up with these guys because she has finals? FUCK NO. it would not matter to her. She would find a way to have another student take her final for her in order to go on the date. So the fact she is not valuing now just seems shes just trying to get the attention. As thats what you kinda need man is a woman that wants to treat you like your the chris hensworth or your life.

thecruzzer · 2020-08-03T05:55:19+00:00

My opinion: Sounds kinda like she just wants attention from you man. If she really wanted to see you I feel like she’d find a way to do so. Her saying “when it gets better” is bs, no one knows when that is, could be months, years. “When it gets better” is just an excuse to not see you. You have the right idea about putting the ball in her court, I think you should find a way to do that.

pua_max · 2020-08-03T06:05:45+00:00

I like to hash out these kind of things over call. Might work for you.

quinnmcd · 2020-08-03T14:33:03+00:00

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Title	Really confused - Help
Author	ItsSYZYGY
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	August 3, 2020 5:46 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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