I'm fine with being rejected, but what gets to me is that some girls feel the need to patronize you when doing so.
Even if I am not really that invested, what stings more than the rejection is hearing something like "I'm really sorry to get your hopes up, I really like you etc etc", like, girl, I don't really care, but the fact that you think I do is what annoys me.

Yes yes, I shouldn't care even about this, but I still like to be treated with respect, not a sick puppy. And even when I reply with nonchalance, I just know she is imagining me being devastated about this grave loss, since, you know, I am just so unlucky, woe is me. Some girls even try to pick a fight almost when you act like you don't care. They really can't fathom anyone being not completely shattered by their rejection.

When in reality, I have my phone buzzing every 15 minutes with girls hitting me up.

I made this post because this is clearly a weak spot with my inner game. It's different from not being able to handle rejection - I am perfectly fine with rejection - just in a way that is so patronizing, almost like being looked down on.
Guess my ego doesn't like this shit AT ALL.

Some mindsets, mindset changes and ways to behave to deal with things of this nature?