So I just ended a longterm relationship & for the first time and I was looking to get back into the dating game a month later.

For the first time ever I downloaded Tinder (it was very new when I got into my last relationship) and started matching. All I did for 3 days was swipe right on pmuch anyone and then see what matches I'd get.

This is where I accidentally matched up with the girl I used to date before I got into my last relationship. Now, we dated for about 3 months iirc but then she started seeing another guy and I committed to the girl I had been with until recently.

Not gonna lie, I was quite into her and felt kinda shit when she broke it off. However I got over it quite fast since I was even way more into the girl that I then ended up in a relationship with.

Nevertheless, when we matched up I didn't know what to think about it. We spoke a bit, how we hadn't seen each other in way too long (obv) and said we should meet up sometime. I deliberately didn't get concrete since I first wanted some time to think about it due to the history we had before. After a bit I was like, fuck it, we'll see where it gets us.

So I asked her if she wanted to meet up soon, she said she couldn't this week but what about next week. I told her i'd check some things with work but that'd be fine for me. I confirmed some dates and asked her when she was available. This was last wednesday and I just stopped getting any reply. I send her a pm again on saturday to ask again if the date was okay but again no reply.

Now maybe I'm missing something, but it's just random as fuck to me & kinda pisses me off since imo it's kinda disrespectful. It's not a random tindergirl that stops replying like you have dozens. Since on top of us dating, we also have a few shared good friends (and it's kinda coincidental that we hadn't bumped into eachother in so long). Though at the same time the fact that this bothers me enough to make a post about, probably indicates that it's a bad idea to meet up after all since it means too much to me. I just don't really understand why she'd stop replying out of the blue literally the moment after she suggested next week to meet up.