[REQUEST] A guide on how to attain confidence without becoming an asshole in the process?

Funtruck · 2014-12-23T14:18:30+00:00

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gjklmf · 2014-12-23T13:43:26+00:00

Set boundaries, enforce them. Have values, prioritize them. Understand that your ability to directly affect an outcome is limited. Be a better man today then you were yesterday.

Throwaway_d · 2014-12-23T14:21:34+00:00

Why should having confidence mean being an asshole?

There are some people who are assholes who appear confident because they are loud and agressive. These people aren't confident on the inside, so they are overcompensating on the inside.

Being confident doesn't mean being a dick or undermining others. It means having a strong sense of your own self worth and a belief in your abilities.

If you want to become more confident, keep pushing outside of your comfort zone in every aspect of your life. Eventually things that were once very scary to you will become easy. Then you'll be confident.

FinalPartisan · 2014-12-23T15:41:28+00:00

Respect both other people and yourself at the same time.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-12-23T19:24:41+00:00

I feel that you're creating a problem that doesn't exist. I believe that you're smart enough to know how to not be an asshole. And if you're unsure, just ask the person in question, "hey am I being an asshole?"

I feel that this is one of those things people to do to put off taking action.

Title	[REQUEST] A guide on how to attain confidence without becoming an asshole in the process?
Author	remindmewhyimbalding
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	December 23, 2014 11:00 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2q5ysl/request_a_guide_on_how_to_attain_confidence/
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