Resources for working on "Dance Game"

chumpta · 2010-12-23T01:14:40+00:00

can't learn how to dance with no books, son! gotta feel that shit in your soul, in ya bones, kid!

clubcantevenhandleme · 2010-12-23T19:01:30+00:00

When it comes to getting women interested in me on the dance floor I've developed what I think is some pretty tight game. When I am out with my friends we always get lots of IOIs. I used to look really nervous, awkward and uncomfortable on the dance floor but then I went clubbing with a friend of mine who is the most confident, outgoing and fun guy you will ever see on the dance floor. He has some absolutely ridiculous dance moves and makes all kinds of silly faces but guess what? The ladies love it.

So here is my advice to you all:

Stop trying to look cool and just have fun

Some tips to help you out on your path to deliberately not looking cool (I'm serious):

1. Don't be a try hard People are far too worried about being cool and sexy on the dance floor and it shows. There is no better way to DLV than by trying too hard to DHV. You'll never dance like JT or Usher so stop trying to.

2. Learn to love dancing "I'm not drunk enough to dance" - Don't ever think that. A couple of drinks to chill you out a bit is just fine but you shouldn't use it as a crutch. I'm always listening to dance music in my flat and I'm always dancing about like an idiot. Whenever you get the chance - listen to dance music and just start dancing. It's not about learning moves or routines it's about having fun and getting familiar with the songs.

3. Dance like nobody is watching Silly, cheesy dance moves like rolling the dice etc. are your new best friends. If you see someone in a club doing something stupid like the sprinkler, the shopping trolley etc. then make a mental note of it and next time you are out do that move.

4. Fake it 'til you make it Confidence is attractive. You don't need to be a good dancer you just need to do whatever it is you are doing with a smile on your face that screams "I don't take myself too seriously."

5. Refer to the lyrics Make cheesy references to the lyrics of the song - make a phone gesture, point to your heart, point to yourself, point to other people, shake your finger do whatever. This is where it really helps to know the music well.

6. Attack the space Don't grind on random groups of girls from behind. Don't even go and dance near them. Instead whenever you see a nice space open up on the dance floor you and your friends should move there and make it your own. This makes it look like you are more interested in fun than picking up women. Result!

7. Early Bird catches the Worm Don't think "oh crap it's dead in here" when you get to a club early and the dance floor is dead. Your reaction should be "**** yeah" look at all that space. Don't get there when it is completely dead but you want to own the dance floor and be the guy who people are pointing at and laughing. When you start seeing groups of girls say "hahaha look at that guy, amazing" you know you are doing something right. You are fun, you don't give a crap what people think and you are there to have a good time.

8. Ignore! Ignore! Ignore! If you and your friends are doing it right you should be surrounded by groups of girls. Don't be too quick to acknowledge their existence. Just play it cool and take your time. The odd cheeky glance over in their direction is good. Staring right past them and just enjoying your dancing is even better. Just pick your moment and then every so often turn around a bit and gradually start dancing with them.

I realise I probably haven't explained all this very well but I'll write some more stuff about this later. If anyone has any questions about all this fire away and I'll make sure I cover it in the next post. The best thing about having good dance game is that women will give you IOIs with out you ever having to approach them.

[to be continued]

upyourattraction · 2010-12-23T01:14:26+00:00

Dancing is something you really need a teacher for. Not only will it dramatically speed up your progress, but they can point out any mistakes and tailor the lesson just to you.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-12-23T04:35:35+00:00

Look for a video in the RSD Transformations series, by RSD Ozzie. The whole disc deals specifically with "dance floor game."

2010-12-23T01:20:56+00:00

Assuming club dancing, my best advice is just to observe other people, emulate, then stop giving a fuck what you look like and kind of wave/melt into the music.

Chicks hit on my all the time while I'm club dancing and I've had no lessons or whatever, I don't even do anything special, just kind of wave with the music and occasionally headbang or 'get low' or something.

Actual resources:

Youtube searching is the best bet Actual club dancing lessons could be fun too.

Dantai · 2010-12-23T06:06:10+00:00

I think dancing in most clubs now a days is just Straight grinding. If people could post tips on that, that would be great.

Title	Resources for working on "Dance Game"
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