To put in context:

I am a 28 year old male, who was in a relationship for more than 5 years and is single for 6 months now. I am getting back into the dating game right now, had a couple of them. Some were better than others.

Approx. 2 months after I broke up, I encountered a girl who happens to be the daughter of my mom's friend. I already know her for a really long time, we just did not see each other for a while.

After our encounter, she dm'ed me on IG. A couple weeks later we met and after that for one more time. Before the third date, she flaked twice and at that time, I stopped talking to her. On the dates, nothing happened, I did not try anything. The dates were ok I'd say, but I was unusually dull. Retrospectively, I think that my extended ashwagandha intake of more than 9 months made me that dull. Even if not, I was just too dull and nonchalant. Usually, I am a extroverted person, who easily talks to new people, also girls, connects quick and can lead a conversation with confidence. Enough blabla.

How do I restart my game? I already replied on one IG story, we chatted two/ three sentences, but that's it. Fun Fact: I am going to be on her brother's bachelor party soon.