Hello all

Hope you're well and this blog post finds you well and can serve some educational purpose to you.

I'm Matthew Eastwood

A pickup artist that has taught for the likes of Michael Valmont, Kezia Noble, TheBecksterLifestyle and YourCharismaCoach.com

Have been interviewed by all of the above, as well as appeared on BBC3 and featured in "The Sun" and "Esquire"

I had a small based youtube channel

At the end of 2017 I stopped picking up girls. stopped my teaching, stopped my youtube channel and all the big pickup companies I worked for were no longer my employers.

Why?

4 years of being only a dating coach gives you a warped sense of reality where you feel better than others. You just become about sex and girls, which is cool but I've learned isn't how to get the pure hotties that you want.

I gave up. developed at work to a regional manager level within 8/9 months of literally working every single day, often 70/80 hours a week. I had a French girlfriend, scatter cushions, and the alcohol in my fridge had been replaced with weird alternative milks.

Me and my team (me, Far right)

Life became Comfortably boring again. I lost all my muscle mass (I put this mainly down to working too much) , I stopped going out altogether. I went to dinner with other couples that my missus knew. They would be estate agents, architects, having met on a gap year, festival, uni etc.

Me and the French girlfriend broke up. This was oddly upsetting for me. I often used to have little pity for men in breakups and saw it as a "Suck it up" situation. but this was different. The way it ended, made me distraught and made me realise how all those people I used to teach when they came out of a serious relationship.

I needed to get back into game. I needed to help people again. I was getting bored of my job. I decided to get back into game.

-I JUST NEEDED TO LEARN IT AGAIN

This is my advice for you guys that have taken time off or have been in a relationship and are hesitating getting back into talking to girls.

Fucking Do it.

I'm not going to lie to you. You will be shit, make all the mistakes in the book again.

My mistake this time was I was being overly too eager in night game and too nice. But if you are experienced you can notice it in yourself.

I've reigned it in all ready and the past few nights I have been more "on" sexually with the eye contact.....something which over the last year I avoided doing, as sexual advances in the workplace isn't what it used to be.

The muscle that is AA, that you need to always keep on top of, has gone in the nighttime. I haven't really sank my teeth into any meaty daygame yet.....but I'm not a spam approacher, so don't fancy doing a day on Oxford Street with you.

I would love to document everything again this time....So if you have a video camera and have a few free days for filming. let's grab a beer and maybe we can help each other out.

If you're also just a fellow lover of women, lets have a coffee and I will help you any way I can.

Much Love

Matt Eastwood

London 2018