Prior:
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6qa189/essexaspie_fr_friday/
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6paify/sunday_approaches_fr/
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6nzgg2/fr_monday_night_bars/
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6oampy/tuesday_approaches_fr/
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6oqqdd/couple_of_direct_approaches_fr/
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6pozyh/tuesdayessexaspiefr/
Slightly different stlye FR to usual as it wasn't really an approach fest! Spent all night with a group of girls - just I failed to really attempt to escalate at all. I'm so used to getting shot down at the open that I felt a bit out of my depth when I wasn't shot down, lol and despite reading so much theory and stuff, I just wasn't really sure how to escalate in the moment.
I was out with 2 friends. One of them is like male model good looking which possibly affected me a bit.
We were at a table drinking, and there were 3 hot girls on the same table all talking with each other. One of the girls was GORGROUS by the way. We'll call tehm brunette, horse girl (the super hot one) and blonde.
We hadn't opened them yet and had just been talking amongst ourselves.
2 of the girls got up to go to the bathroom leaving blonde by herself. None of my friends would open her so I decided to 'man up'.
I said ''They've left you alone with us!'' She replied ''yeah, they must trust you!''. I said ''Yeah, they really shouldn't. We're blatant perverts. You're in trouble'' She started laughing and within seconds we were all chatting and laughing. Her friends came back from the bathroom and now it's like we're a big group of friends all chatting and laughing. We all gets shots in a stuff. I'm trying to remember to tease them etc - I'm trying to keeo it fun and light. We get some shit tests about our age but handle it well I think.
We all move on too another bar. The horse girl has been a bit glued to her phone all night. Apparently a new boyfriend she has.
The blonde girl tells me that I should make a move on the brunette friend. I dont know why she'd say that. Could this mean that her friend told her that she liked me or something? I have no idea.
The blonde gilr is obsessed with my super handsome friend even though he's not really said anything, lol. She is all over him, but he has a GF and doesn't tend to cheat anymore. This kind of threw me off because she was the one I seemed to get along best with maybe, but it's hard to escalate when you know she fancies your friend!
There's not a great more to add as at one point in the night they all dissappeared. Maybe the blonde one decided that since she couldn't get my friend they'd go elswhere.
I don't think I done anything like enogh in the way of escalation, though.
Wasn't really sure how to start without it being 'creepy'
I was also kind of torn between all of the girls and never really zoned in on one in particualr which was probably another mistake. I kind of fancied them all. THe girl with the boyfriend in particular! I spoke with them all and projected fun and teased them at every opportunity, but never escalated beyond that.
IN terms of escalation, I spoke with the brunette a fair bit and we spoke about dating and various shit and I tried to make it a bit flirty, and I touched her like on the arm to make points and stuff, but I just never felt as though I could escalate more without it seeming creepy and weird. I think I always need an unrealstic level of IOI's from the girl before I feel as though I can escalate which is obviously never really gonna happen (unless you have model good looks like my friend, lol) so I need to fix that somehow and risk some very awkward kino rejections.
I don't think I made any statements of intent like telling any of them that they were hot.
there doesn't seem to be anything here