I don’t want to sit here and write a thread about me venting or complaining about my situation but instead I write in order to improve my game/myself and pull myself out of this scarcity mindset that was inflicted due to covid isolation and prior experiences. I’m fucking tired of this shit. So any and all advice is appreciated. May my path like yours be filled with bountiful encounters and pleasant experiences with the opposite party of your choice :)

So some questions on my behalf before I get to my understanding of the scarcity mindset.

1) Is it possible to completely get rid of the scarcity mindset?

2) If one is in the scarcity mindset and becomes aware of it? Is approaching women the catalyst for getting out of it? Is the experience the catalyst for inducing transformation towards abundance?

3) Is the beginning always filled with doubt and voices in your head telling you to revert to your old ways?

4) How do I know the voice of scarcity is dying so that I can dance on it’s grave?

5) If scarcity makes one act or be desperate in the presence of women/guys, will adopting the mindset of abundance allow you to be naturally carefree and be more successful?

It’s interesting to think that when an individual is in a scarcity mindset, their whole entire reason for being gets impacted to such a deep level that their perception becomes their own enemy. For example, you become neurotic or fixated on one girl/guy because she is the prominent figure who is currently showing up in your daily life whom you are oh so attracted. However, compare that to an individual who sees attractive girls on the regular and makes an active effort to induce his game on them by being present in environments where they are or can be found. The scarce person’s reason to exist is so that the external is the one in control and he allows it to be so while the abundant individual has control from an internal standpoint and makes a difference towards the external irregardless of the outcome(rejection, “No’s”,..etc)

There is quite the difference between these two and although one can be aware of the extremes..one can often get lost in the middle. Some even give up when the going gets tough. And I hate to break it to you but if you want to get out of the scarcity mindset..YOU HAVE TO MAKE MOVES. You have to actively participate. You have to make lifestyle changes so that your opportunities for meeting women/guys is increased. Lol it’s like going fishing in a sense..if the lake has many fishes and you are aware, even if you miss a catch. It won’t be a big deal since you can just cast your hook again. As for the person who is poor or desperate of awareness/perceptive callings, lake to him can appear empty even if it is filled to the brim.