I met this girl during the week through a dating app. We went out to eat dinner at a restaurant, had a few drinks at the bar, and she agreed to come back to my place so I could show her a mutual hobby (she was very impressed). We made out a lot and got into it, but she said she doesn’t have sex on the first date so I didn’t try to escalate even further.

The challenge now is how should I approach this second date? I wanted to keep up the momentum - a date is planned for the afternoon this weekend since it’s the only time we were both free. I’m thinking an activity like mini golf or bowling, but I don’t know if I should try to bounce back to my place after, go to a second location, or what the strategy should be.

I think the goal should be to try to have sex asap but should I try to make it happen or wait until a 3rd date?

Any advice how to play it would be appreciated