SEDDIT! Help me out!

axe122 · 2019-10-24T16:09:57+00:00

If the guys just sitting there doing nothing, alls it takes is for one girl to say he’s hot and they all say he’s hot. They all want what every other girl wants. He probly puts off a vibe your unaware of but because he knows girls want him and probly always have he knows they want him and puts off this vibe (this is confidence) he just knows he has them even before he opens his mouth cuz it’s just always been that way for him so why would these girls be any different?) If he makes eye contact with one of them and they feel that connection it starts a chain reaction and all the girls want him and view him as a potential option. If you look young you probly looked really you g like still like a boy when you were in middle and high school when he most likely developed his confidence with girls and because they weren’t interested in you at all you never got to experience that so basically your learning from scratch at a later age and it’s harder cuz girls have been developing their social skills with guys since 12 and we don’t care if they are insecure or come across a touch needy or weak we don’t look for them qualities in women. If you never really flirted or tried with girls and are just starting at 18 think about it the girls have been in the game. For 6 years already before you even got the nerve to try with a girl I don’t know if this is exactly how it was for you but that’s how it sounds and there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s like that for probly 90% of guys but your much better off starting at 18 and learning game will help you build the confidence you need to get the girls and help you understand how to spark attraction. You absolutely can spark attraction if your decent looking, in decent shape and have your life in some order (at least up to par with your peers) I used to talk for years super platonic and tug women and wondered why they never viewed me as an option, I changed a few things and some bad behaviors and I look basically the same 10 years later but not I have options cuz I figured out how to facilitate her attraction and get her and keep her interested

rich_god · 2019-10-24T08:28:13+00:00

It's not about looks, it's about attitude and ability to connect. Do you make people feel valued and special ? Do you bring excitement into their life ? Is spending a moment with you something unique and memorable ? Do you maintain intense eye contact, do you listen, are you present in the moment ? Do you have fun and generate fun around you ?

Title	SEDDIT! Help me out!
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	October 24, 2019 8:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dmdb6t/seddit_help_me_out/
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