Hey everybody. Im suppose I am a novice when it comes to women in terms of actually trying. I have a playful nature, and woman perceive it as flirting. Where I work, its hot. A co worker always tells me its so hot, just me however, when Im on break. I assume its to get my attention. Theres some light attraction there.

IF she says she's hot, and I were to just walk over, the old arm brush, and say, "Here, Ive got something, lift your hair real quick." In the soft voice I usually have, and cool the back of her neck with some cool water or something (Ive heard the merits of playing with the back of a girls neck near her scalp) would that seems to beta? Too desperate? Could someone tell me a better way to go about this?