Seduction in China.

HellsArchitect · 2015-05-18T21:10:46+00:00

ITT:

Chinese girls are bitches
Chinese girls are really nice
Chinese girls are materialistic and high maintenance
Chinese girls are very giving and easy going

I feel like nobody here knows what they're talking about

HeartBreakRidge · 2015-05-18T13:20:48+00:00

Asian and China are completely different. Japanese as a country and people tend to be very liberal, look at the porn and general craziness that comes out of Japan. Korea is very conservative, you can't even search porn sites because they are blocked, true Korean girls can be very skiddish, very insecure about looks (many of them get plastic surgery) don't make jokes/negs about they way they look or even general sex jokes, American humor is very different. You have to understand many people in asia don't move out of their families house until they are married, they can be very sheltered, at times close minded. Korean girls need a lot of attention, texting every day, maybe twice a day. The way men generally treat girls in these countries can be vastly different from the way men treat and interact with women from your country so keep that in mind. I don't know first hand about China, but a buddy of mine who lived in Shanghai says the girls there are much easier than girls in Korea. Asian girls who have traveled the world a bit tend to be cooler, easier, open minded and much more relaxed. Girls who have never left their country can be straight up bitches. Good luck man.

junklogin · 2015-05-18T10:18:16+00:00

Chinese women are a different breed. Although, there is a stark difference, from what I hear, between Chinese women from the cities (Shanghai, Beijing, etc.) versus the rural towns (as western culture is slowly infiltrating the cities, whereas it is not as profound in rural towns). I dated a girl (here in America) from a rural town, and it was rough.

Either way, rural or big city, Chinese women are extremely demanding. You are better off being gay and looking for a Chinese man - men have been bred to kowtow to every demand of Chinese women, as they are extremely demanding. If you are an American woman accustomed to being treated like shit, you will have it great if you are dating a Chinese man.

My (now ex) Chinese gf is extremely demanding. I have a friend (also American) who said the same of his Chinese ex. My barber's son (Korean) is getting a divorce from his Chinese wife of 2.5 years.

That being said, if you REALLLLLY want a Chinese woman, just be aware they have extremely high expectations, they expect you to wait a long time for sex (average age of lost virginity is 23, rivaled closely by India at 23 as well...the only two countries that are that high), they expect dinners, gifts, flowers, and all that jazz. Whether that is a result of the men being so supplicating, or if it is because women are just raised that way, I don't know. It is how it is.

They are not ones to show emotion early on, or share feelings. Just be slow, and accept beta tendencies into your life (to a point)...heh. Be aware that you are on their turf, so those expectations may be higher (in other words, if you were in America you could at least say "hey, we are in America, cool it with those expectations"). Learning a little Chinese and taking an interest in Chinese culture will go a longggggggg way with them.

recyclablebantha · 2015-05-18T16:20:47+00:00

I was wondering if you guys had any suggestions when trying to seduce Asian woman. What kind of things should I look for when talking to Asian woman. I want to note, that I am currently in China and some things may not apply themselves here as much as in the U.S. or abroad.

Yes, it's true. Things in the US don't apply. Here are some cultural things you should be prepared to encounter:

The first thing is that you MUST try to keep your head on straight: you will be a desirable commodity to women in China. Girls will meet you half-way. Hell, they'll go more than half-way. They'll spoil you compared to the hoops that Western girls make you jump through..
Why are you a commodity? Well, they find Western looks to be exotic, much the same way we find Asians exotic in the US. Also, the standard expectation of a Western guy is to be egalitarian and hold up their own end of the courtship/relationship, compared with Asian guys who seem to expect Asian girls to handle their share and also part of the guy's share. (In terms of maintaining the courtship/relationship/interaction/whatever.) We also usually pay better attention and are more affectionate than Asian guys are mostly. I've heard a lot of complaints from Asian girls in Asia, about the guys too often vacillating between acting like babies and needing to act like some sort of father figure/authority figure. (Like, they need their asses wiped but then also need to feel in charge so they meddle and tell them what they should do.)
They'll make you feel like a man in a way that Western girls don't. Why? Well, Asian guys are more effeminate than their Western counterparts, for the most part. Which forces the girls to be even more girly.
You need to take extra responsibility and care when it comes to protection: many girls in Asia don't push for condom use.
Many of them can be demanding, but it really really depends on circumstances. What do I mean? Well, Western guys aren't generally taken seriously in Asia. So it's not like you're necessarily going to be dealing with a girl who sees herself on a path to marriage with you. Those serious girls are going to be the ones who will be most demanding because of what they expect in terms of what they want their man to provide for them and their future.
Honestly, the casual girls might be easier to find than any girls wanting something serious. A lot of girls also like to cheat on their boyfriends or husbands with foreigners and you might not even know until the morning after.
Asians have a lower bar set when it comes to what they consider flirting and such. Just touching a girl's arm is a big move for many of them. Touch is really noticed. People don't generally hug. Shaking hands or high-fiving can be strange to them. Doesn't mean you can't do these things. You just have to be really wary of your target audience.
Asian girls don't really make you wait so much. Sometimes they move fast! First night closes are not uncommon and definitely 2nd and 3rd night closes are common.
The traditional roots though, do make it highly likely that an Asian girl might get attached after sex. And there isn't the same gradient of different levels when it comes to dating: they are either just friends or they call it BF/GF. Don't let it freak you out if her friends start calling you a BF. That's not necessarily what she thinks you are. So wait until you have The Talk with her before assuming what she thinks/wants.
Usually girls see sleeping with or dating a foreigner as one of those things they should get out of their system before they settle down with a stable Asian guy.

Title	Seduction in China.
Author	lilsebastian_rip
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Date	May 18, 2015 9:33 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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