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Da fuq you crying about dog?
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:42 PM
1

If dancing is not your thing, find a decent bar with pool, darts, or something else. Learn how to get decent at the game and know how to play them in a fun way with girls. Straight up pool can be really difficult for girls, especially the prettier they get the worse their hand eye coordination is. Killer is a better game for multiple players, and easier to play. Then you can shoot the shit with some random dudes over a game, and if yall look like ur having fun or are impressive girls will start …
/r/seduction31/03/19 05:13 PM
7

Maybe. Women needed men back then. They didn’t get as educated, they weren’t able to get a decent paying job and weren’t treated anywhere close to males in the workforce, so they were probably more eager to get hitched. Times have changed. Women are putting education/career/independence as there number #1 priority over starting a family. They bring more to the table, so they are going to expect more from their partner.
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:51 PM
2

Air BnB?
/r/seduction24/03/19 04:45 PM
1

Dancing is fucking weird
/r/seduction06/10/18 09:10 PM
0

Your dad is giving you some tough love. Stop being a pussy.
/r/seduction29/08/18 06:13 PM
1

Well, first you go through it, not to it. We don’t even know if you’re a boy or girl? What help are you looking for?
/r/seduction19/08/18 10:10 AM
1

It’s probably lower than you think it is. Remember to control your breathing. Try to be receptive to her body language to figure what she likes/doesn’t. A lot of girls don’t do anything with their hands, grab them and put them in your head while your eating her out, or your ass while you’re smashing her. Basically encourage her to feel your body. It will feel good, and may allow her to be more expressive with what she likes and doesn’t like. The energy leading into sex may dictate the type of se…
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:19 PM
5

Case by case dude. If your bros ain’t getting any, they well be jealous of you to some extent and depending on the dude they may or may not show their jealousy. All you can do is try to be respectful and not rub your success in their face. Try to even help them out if you can.
/r/seduction27/07/18 02:07 PM
1

Tell her to stop living in the past
/r/seduction27/07/18 01:55 PM
1

Why not become a regular at a bar. Learn to play darts or pool to a decent level. Whenever you go to the bar you will get a little confidence boost because people will know you, you will feel welcome, this is your domain, and you’ll be able to invite women to come play with you and your wingman which shows leadership/fun/confidence. Not only will you gain a new hobby, but you’ll also make a lot of guy friends as you wait for girls to come and go. Shooting the shit is much more fun over a game of…
/r/seduction18/07/18 03:10 PM
2

Is it possible he might be married or in a relationship and something has come up in that world of his life?
/r/seduction09/07/18 01:42 PM
2

Because women don’t need a man as much as they did before.
/r/seduction25/06/18 10:38 AM
2

Alcohol numbs my dick. Don’t drink too much, Have water between beers. Just try to stay sober as possible.
/r/seduction02/06/18 01:42 PM
1

Try to get her to open up about her thoughts and experiences. Ask her where these ideas/insecurities are coming from. Has she had some pump and dumps in the past that she is suffering from? Get her talking and show that you can actually listen to her.
/r/seduction02/06/18 05:12 AM
2

What country from Asia?
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:37 PM
0

This is seriously cringeworthy. I don’t know why you think this is so original and why you got so many up votes.
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:35 PM
2

Now that you don’t work there she can hit on you without any work drama getting in the way. Get on it dude.
/r/seduction28/05/18 04:38 PM
3

Why do your pictures look like they were taken with a gameboy? It’s 2018 dude. I swear I’ve seen you post these pics before too
/r/seduction25/05/18 08:45 AM
-2

How did you two get into the bar? You look eleven teen years old. Im going to need to see some ID or some bribes.
/r/seduction25/05/18 08:41 AM
1

Just move on dude. It’s such an unnecessary way to live your life when we have so many forms of contraception. What if after getting married she realizes she really loves sex and feels regret from not being able to experiment in her youth and find a partner who also matches her better sexually. Now she’s going to feel like the marriage is a burden, perhaps resent you, no longer want to have sex with you, say goodbye to your marriage.
/r/seduction15/05/18 09:34 AM
1

Learn to play pool and darts to a decent level. Become a regular at multiple bars, and know the other regulars/owners. You will make a lot of friends playing pool/darts while you kill time waiting for pussy to come and go at the bar. You will feel confident inviting girls to play pool and darts with you because you know wtf you are doing. Look up ways to make these games easier for women; especially pool.
/r/seduction30/04/18 12:47 PM
4

If a girl you really liked contacted you, you would be eager to contact them back. She’s clearly not eager to contact you, therefore not interested. Go find someone who has more initial attraction to you. Next girl.
/r/seduction30/04/18 12:36 PM
2

I dunno. I think it gives a lot of average women false confidence. They match with tons of guys, and then sprinkle in some 9 or 10/10, now everyone guy below that isn’t good enough. I got tired of 15 minute conversations to nowhere.
/r/seduction16/04/18 01:59 PM
1

Lets say they are taking selfies together. You can pass by and say, “Here, let me take one for you two.” Then take one using their phone, and then get one more with the 3 of you together. Then introduce yourself.
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:30 AM
1

Never been, but I don’t think “boot camp” is necessary. You gotta just continually put yourself out there every weekend dude. Go to the bars/clubs with high volumes of people. I feel this gets girls in the mood to be competing with other girls and more open to being chatted up/hooking up. I’m not sure the exact reason but girls want what others girls have either because they are jealous or because if other girls do it then they think it’s okay for them to do it too. They see other girls interact…
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:27 AM
0

“If he asked you to marry him would you say yes?” If she hesitates, then you can say something like “So you’re clearly looking for other options.”
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:16 AM
2

In addition he didn’t have easily accessible porn. If you wanted to see some naked chick you had to get off your ass and get some.
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:04 AM
4

This, my buddy got roofied by some girl last week. Somehow $2500 charged to his credit card, and cant remember shit for a 4 hour period that night.
/r/seduction18/03/18 01:48 AM
1

Just curious, what “event” did she have at this place? Are you sure she is not just a promoter for some bar/club/event and gets paid for every head that she brings to the event?
/r/seduction25/02/18 12:48 PM
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They can still be of some help, but you need to “use” them in a way that benefits you. First start by asking them their opinion of your fashion. It can be something simple like, “I’m trying to go for x sort of look, any ideas of what shop I should check out?” They might even offer to go with you to shop, they do love shopping after all. This will also get it into their head like hmm, this guy is putting some effort into the way he dresses, he must be lookin for a girl. Second, use them as social…
/r/seduction20/02/18 10:48 AM
3

Hate to break it to you, but she’s probably not too interested in you, otherwise she would put in some effort by now. Next girl.
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:26 AM
2

You have had months to ask her out, that’s plenty of time. You can’t expect everyone to wait patiently while you figure out where your balls are. I’m not trying to be an asshole to you, but think of it as tough love. Your life is going to full of disappointment and self-pity if you carry on this way. You are about to be the nice guy who finishes last.
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:47 AM
2

Did you try making these plans when you were still at the bar? If not, then the lesson to learn here is strike while the iron is hot. You should have made plans to see each other again ASAP that very night.
/r/seduction20/02/18 03:05 AM
2

Girl’s not girls’. How to stand out? You honestly sound like a typical ‘nice guy’, so grow a pair of balls and be confident. You don’t know if what you are offering is what she even wants. Each of you are offering different things, but it’s for her to figure that out and decide what she wants. The whole not being friends with the guy who gets her sounds so babyish.
/r/seduction20/02/18 02:59 AM
2

Your job is to give men opportunities to escalate. Smile, take your headphones out when an attractive guy is around, and wear clothes that say look at me, come talk to me. Black stockings and a skirt. Clothes that are tight and show your body line.
/r/seduction19/02/18 11:14 PM
2

Coffee/hot chocolate and ice skating?
/r/seduction12/02/18 04:13 PM
1

Text game is difficult. You should have gotten the number and scheduled the next date when you had the good vibe going yesterday.
/r/seduction11/02/18 10:16 AM
1

Unfortunately no
/r/seduction08/01/18 09:05 AM
1

It's not getting a hotel that is the problem. It's the wording to the woman.
/r/seduction08/01/18 01:20 AM
1

Near my house? If we are near my house I’d just invite her back there. If I’m in the city there are inexpensive love motels everywhere.
/r/seduction07/01/18 05:13 PM
1

Sorry to hear that dude. I hope you didn't spend too much money on this girl.
/r/seduction31/12/17 10:00 AM
2

I’ve done LDR twice and here are my thoughts. Of course there are a lot of variables when it comes to LDR. They could be 2 hours away driving or an 8 hour flight. But, don’t do it if you’re young and not serious about settling down in the future with that person. First, when you’re young you don’t have a lot of money. You’ll start to get bummed about how much time, money, and energy it’s costing you to see this person for what is probably only going to be a weekend. There is nothing worse than g…
/r/seduction10/11/17 03:42 PM
1

Again, I never said you need them. You don't need nice clothes, you don't need to be well groomed, but if you want to give yourself advantages then you should explore other opportunities.
/r/seduction10/11/17 06:03 AM
1

Sorry I never meant to imply "all", but most are. They don't actively pursue men they find attractive. They only choose from the most attractive ones that pursue them.
/r/seduction10/11/17 05:58 AM
1

I'm not saying you need a conversation starter, but women are quite passive.
/r/seduction09/11/17 06:06 PM
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1) In regards to your first point. I'm not saying you "need" a prop. It's about as useful as sprinkles on top of a cake. 3) I wasn't depending on the waitress to open me, and I'm not suggesting for men to depend on others. I wasn't even considering opening up the waitress because there were other women I was more interested in, but the "prop" allowed her to spontaneously open me up. Isn't it better to maximize your ability for others to open you up as well? You want to approach, but also be appr…
/r/seduction09/11/17 05:10 PM
0

You're right, probably the bigger lesson to learn is being present in the moment. However, I don't think you should disregard my advice. It's easy for us to sit behind computers and tell each other to just be alpha king, don't give a fuck, say whatever you want, but not every guy is going to get to the level. I wasn't even thinking about hitting on the waitress, the opportunity came as a total surprise. It takes basically no effort to keep something meaningful on you to allow yourself to be open…
/r/seduction09/11/17 04:19 PM
13

I think it's a little more subtle than peacocking, wouldn't you say?
/r/seduction09/11/17 11:33 AM
21

Use sexual language. As a woman, you should feel free to turn the conversation into a sexual direction. It could be simply through some sort of sexual innuendo, for example if you are playing pool/billiards at a bar, well you’re using sticks and balls to play the game so there are many opportunities there, “Am I stroking this stick well?” + wink. Men have to be more conscious doing this, but as a women you will seem cool and he will feel more comfortable escalating sexual talk. Perhaps go to a b…
/r/seduction04/11/17 07:36 AM
7

Basically you need to just avoid them thinking you are their boyfriend. 1) Don't say, "I love you." 2) Don't buy her gifts/pay for things 3) Don't text/call her as often as a boyfriend would 4) Just ask yourself if your actions are stretching too far into boyfriend territory
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:48 AM
1

Let's go back to my previous questions for a second. I want a specific answer, not a set of guidlines. What is your typical fall/winter tinder date idea that doesn't cost a lot of money.
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:29 PM
2

We're talking about dates, not hobbies. I have plenty of hobbies, but they don't all make for great dates. The other week I had a tinder date with a girl. Initially it was just to go have a drink and smoke hookah at a hookah lounge. It has a dark mysterious vibe to it, you take of your shoes and sit on the floor and can even get a little private corner to yourselves, perfect for getting close, but we also decided that we were both hungry upon meeting so we grabbed some tacos and a beer first (pr…
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:16 PM
2

How do you just "meet up" with a tinder girl?
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:50 PM
2

what's your Tinder date look like for gloomy fall weather or even cold ass winter weather?
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:49 PM
1

So what are you go to cheap Tinder dates for winter weather?
/r/seduction18/10/17 02:20 PM
1

But my intention is to bang her on the first date, not be friends with her. But, I don't feel I should need to spend $30-$50 each time I try.
/r/seduction18/10/17 06:05 AM
1

Can you give more of an example of what exactly you say?
/r/seduction18/10/17 06:02 AM
1

I could be wrong, but it sounds like there is some underlying fear. Are you a virgin?
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:00 PM
2

This could vary depending on their nationality. If you're often dating Koreans get some soju, if it's Russians then perhaps vodka. Perhaps ask yourself what nationality of girls you like/often pick up and research typical alcohol from that country, it could also impress them too. A lot of girls generally like tequila. If you have a girl that prefers sweeter stuff why not try some Amaretto (I like Luxardo the best), you can drink it on the rocks or make an Amaretto sour.
/r/seduction03/10/17 05:24 PM
1

Go to a bar that has a pool table/darts/shuffle board. You can pass the time in a fun way with other dudes. When girls come you can invite them to play with you.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:11 PM
5

I think you made the right call. I might of said something like, "Hey one step at a time, why don't we meet each other first and we can meet each other's friends the next time". I would still try for another date. Who knows if it was a defense mechanism, or just 'the more the merrier' attitude. If she says no, don't sweat it. It may seems like a loss, but you are just weeding out girls who are not worth your time.
/r/seduction05/02/17 07:57 AM
1

It's annoying how passive girls are, even when they do like someone.
/r/seduction30/01/17 10:42 PM
4

First question is are you trying to hold onto what little hair you have? Brushing your hair in a certain way to make an appearance that it's not as a bad as a it is? Letting the sides grow while nothing is happening in the middle? Or have you taken the hair clippers and buzzed it down to 0? If you haven't yet, just buzz it down to 0. Get rid of the hat. It's just proof that you are not confident about who you are. When you take that hat off around people they are going to think "ohhhh that's why…
/r/seduction29/06/16 03:38 PM
2

I used to ask myself, "Is what I am doing the role of a boyfriend?" and if I thought yes, then I would change my behavior. I think texting all day and on a daily basis is what couples do, not a casual relationship dude. Just like saying "I love you" or even buying gifts for birthdays or holidays. Meeting her friends/family can put you in a situation where you feel obligated to perform the boyfriend role, so it can help to only see them when you two are together.
/r/seduction08/06/16 02:23 PM
2

Learn to play darts or pool to a decent level. Find a bar you like, become a regular. You will learn a great and fun skill, meet lots of new people (guys and girls) and have lots of opportunity to meet girls you want to bang. When you become a regular you will be very comfortable when meeting girls there.
/r/seduction30/05/16 11:58 AM
1

At least you're taking the game serious at 21. There is not much gaming to be done in your teens due to club/bar/alcohol limits etc. You have plenty of time to get good, make yourself a better more attractive person and pull lots of girls. Time is not running out to learn. I think this is the prime time to be learning actually. But you might want to post some more specific worries of yours so people can help you better. What do you think you are weak at? What's your game like?
/r/seduction07/05/16 08:26 PM
1

Pretty much I would guess. I don't know how your previous relationships flourished so it's hard for me to say.
/r/seduction11/01/16 01:32 PM
2

Just don't cross the line into boyfriend land. Don't pay for things. A coffee here, or a drink there is okay, but particularly no gifts. Don't phone/text everyday. Don't say I love you. If she asks you to be her boyfriend, just say no, you're not looking for anything serious, you just got out of a relationship, if she wants to walk then say that's cool. Don't try too hard to make her happy. I would avoid meeting any of her friends if you can, and don't introduce her to your friends or family. On…
/r/seduction11/01/16 01:04 PM
3

Personally I think one night stands are tricky, and probably less common than you think. I think casual sex/open relationships are much more common. For one night stands I think the best place is to just grind it out at the club. I have only actually ever had 1 ONS, I actually would have been cool dating the girl longer but I found out she had a boyfriend the next morning.
/r/seduction11/01/16 12:19 PM
19

Sometimes I feel like you. I have been in several long term relationships but after a while I just feel like girls always need too much from me. I have hobbies that I really enjoy and want to work on to improve everyday but women always seem to prevent me from doing them. Things will be great at first but later I feel like I would rather just study languages, practice pool or guitar than be obligated to hang out with a girl. It can be hard for me to hang out with a girl more than twice a week. O…
/r/seduction06/01/16 09:08 AM
2

Did you try asking the restaurant to take the list down!? What type of restaurant knowingly allows that list to continue?
/r/seduction28/10/15 08:53 AM
1

First, How old are you guys? Eleventeen? But I kinda actually agree with yokhai, find another girl. I would even tell the girl, listen I like you, I would love to date you but having a third wheel, (in particular a guy) is kind of ridiculous. Call me when you solve this problem.
/r/seduction23/10/15 09:07 PM
3

Especially her friends!
/r/seduction21/10/15 08:01 PM
1

Fuck man, if I could go back in time when I used to work at Wal-mart I would be asking out anybody I wanted. You're in a position where you might be able to show or do some "cool" shit because you know the inns and out of the store. If you actually got fired that would be a pretty cool reason.
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:23 PM
1

Brush up on some Japanese? Maybe Korean?
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:18 PM
1

Send Happy Birthday text with a dick pick, doesn't have to be yours, just something that looks similar. You will either make the move she wants or totally turn her off, at this rate you really don't have anything to lose. Go big or move on.
/r/seduction21/10/15 07:12 PM
5

$15 is not that bad, be a friend/guy and buy it. If she says she will pay you back just say buy me a coffee or snack at lunch time, then it's even less as much money. If it was like $30+ and ur just going as friends then I would say don't buy it.
/r/seduction20/10/15 11:36 PM
4

How much is the ticket?
/r/seduction20/10/15 09:49 PM
6

You are dressed quite nice, I love your (insert article of clothing/hair/nails), are you (going/coming from) a (pary/work/job interview) If party --> I'll be your date! Let's go!/Why didn't you invite me!? if work --> Why do you look so pretty for work? Are you a model? What type of work do you do? if job interview --> Ok let's do a practice run. Would you say you work better in groups or on your own? It says here in your resume you were fired from your last job for always stapling reports on th…
/r/seduction20/10/15 05:56 PM
1

Do this. Wait for 0:15.
/r/seduction19/10/15 08:07 PM
1

Did you text this or say it face to face?
/r/seduction13/10/15 04:29 PM
1

Nice, what exactly did you say?
/r/seduction13/10/15 03:51 PM
0

Bro just don't ask and don't care if she does or not. Sometimes they fight with their boyfriends and to spite them they go out with the mission to fuck some random guy. Don't ask a girl if she has a boyfriend, your are just opening up the possibility of using an excuse to not fuck you. She will let you know if she has a boyfriend if she starts to not feel down with how things are headed. Just don't ask, don't care, and even if she says she does continue to not care.
/r/seduction10/10/15 07:45 PM
1

Good luck dude! Also, if she says no it could be out of shock/defense. After having some time to process what happened and knowing how you feel about her she could change her mind. Happened to me before. But if she says no, don't push any further; as far as your concerned it's next girl time. Let me know how it goes.
/r/seduction06/10/15 07:02 PM
1

Language Exchange, Book Club, Art gallery, museum, wine tasting, these are just ideas.
/r/seduction06/10/15 06:41 PM
4

You're missing it man. You should outright tell her that you're interested. Just find out if she likes you, and if not, stop thinking about her and move on to the next girl. After talking about anime. Just say, "You know, we seem to have some chemistry, I wanna take you out on a date this weekend" If she says no just say "Alright, you're going in my death note"
/r/seduction06/10/15 06:31 PM
15

Bro it's always a gamble. Don't buy drinks and they may walk, buy drinks and they might still end up with another guy by the end of the night. Some girls make it a mission to get as much free shit from guys as possible. It's up to you if you think it's worth the gamble.
/r/seduction01/10/15 06:56 PM
-7

I would say become a professional SC/LOL/DOTA/CS player, or switch from Magic to pro poker player. Seriously though, I think you're going to have to bring more to the table than just those things. How old are you BTW?
/r/seduction28/09/15 05:24 PM
3

Magic the card game or like card tricks/illusions magic? If we are talking about the latter then magic is a great hobby to help meet girls.
/r/seduction28/09/15 05:13 PM
1

What are some of these hobbies of yours? Maybe you need to find a women who is also interested in your hobbies so they will be less boring to talk to. If you don't like talking, a club may actually be a better place to go because you don't really have to talk so much. However, I am willing yo bet you have some sort of dance anxiety, maybe work on that?
/r/seduction28/09/15 05:08 PM
1

I get like this too
/r/seduction26/09/15 03:38 PM
-9

so are you calling me a nonsense like boyfriend? If so, based on what?
/r/seduction25/09/15 11:15 PM
8

It's not about entertaining me. I have plenty of hobbies, many of them I take seriously and try to grow in on a daily basis. It would just be nice to me a girl who was a little bit more driven (i guess like myself) instead of girls who are pretty and whose main hobby is watching the latest netflix show.
/r/seduction25/09/15 11:14 PM
10

I absolutely can!
/r/seduction25/09/15 10:56 PM
1

Just be a little patient. She might end up texting you back asking for another date after she had some time to process her feelings. I went in for a kiss with a girl once and it was awkwardly rejected. It was bad... the next day she came over and said I can't stop thinking about you, we slept together that night. You never know. Good luck
/r/seduction05/09/15 04:14 AM
1

still waiting
/r/seduction25/08/15 06:26 AM
1

Can you elaborate a a little bit more of give some examples?
/r/seduction20/08/15 05:53 AM
1

I have been thinking about what you said over the last couple days. My question has to do with your wording/use of the word "man". Would you say that women have less responsibility/choice over the things that happen in their lives? And if so can you elaborate?
/r/seduction18/08/15 12:18 AM
1

A guy who thought the girl was quite unattractive.
/r/seduction14/08/15 04:17 PM
4

Please don't let one guy's reaction blow it for you. Keep trying!
/r/seduction14/08/15 05:24 AM
1

Is this giving you approach anxiety? If so you do something like give a friend $50, every girl you approach he gives $10 back
/r/seduction24/05/15 06:50 PM
2

Set up another date through texting a few days later. Fuck texting a lot, meeting is so much better. Use her name once when ur texting. Hearing or reading your own name really sounds like your listening/speaking to that person. It sounds a little more intimate. Just imagine a cute/hot girl saying your name, "James, you're so funny!" as apposed to just "you're so funny" or "hahahah". Instead of just "What are you doing" say "How's your Monday going Jessica?" "It was nice meeting you last night. J…
/r/seduction22/05/15 05:21 PM
-2

Here. Let me know how it goes!
/r/seduction22/05/15 04:50 PM
3

Did they fuck? If not it actually proves this strategy sucks for the most part. Even if they did, it doesn't matter because it is TV and they prolly just want to satisfy the audience. Sure it may have worked but for the most part it is just a bad strategy. Playing shit slow jeopardizes your chances of getting the girl. You risk loosing her to another guy while you grow a pair of balls. This is the sort of weak shit I probably did or thought about doing when I was like 14. It probably drove some …
/r/seduction22/05/15 04:41 PM
1

Ok so you suck at dancing. My question is do you even listen to dance music? If you don't, maybe start off by listening to a lot of it. Your brain might have a shitty feeling towards dance music because it reminds you of your lack of dancing skills and so you don't get excited when you hear it. Find dance music you like and just listen to it. Then as your brain starts to enjoy it when you go to the club you will just feel happier and real cuz your body will want to jam to it. Personally I am not…
/r/seduction21/05/15 03:35 AM
1

So, if she brings you to a couch just lay down so it is implied that she will lay down in front of you, just be non nonchalant about it. Or if she sits down ask her to get you a drink or make popcorn and when she comes back she will find you in that position. Once a show is over just flip her over, talk for a few minutes, maybe try to initiate play fight/wrestle leading into tickling, then kissing and go from there. Play fighting is awesome and gets some adrenaline going. You can literally just …
/r/seduction20/05/15 03:39 PM
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I really don't know why. I think part of it is a lack of decent sex education and sex being taboo to talk about in some countries. Perhaps the guys in asia just don't wan't to wear them so girls feel if they demand it and all these guys are too lazy to go out and buy them then they are never going to have sex. Too scared/shy to demand it. Also there is a lot of shame for Asian girls and sex, so typically they like to get quite wasted and that probably hinders their ability to ask/care. There is …
/r/seduction19/05/15 02:19 AM
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I will second the "girls in Asia don't push hard enough for condom use." and a lot don't use birth control. Use a condom man.
/r/seduction18/05/15 06:04 PM
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Nice analogy. You come up with that yourself?
/r/seduction18/05/15 04:56 PM
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I will let you know in about 5 days after we see each other next.
/r/seduction18/05/15 04:51 PM
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True
/r/seduction18/05/15 04:49 PM
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Asian and China are completely different. Japanese as a country and people tend to be very liberal, look at the porn and general craziness that comes out of Japan. Korea is very conservative, you can't even search porn sites because they are blocked, true Korean girls can be very skiddish, very insecure about looks (many of them get plastic surgery) don't make jokes/negs about they way they look or even general sex jokes, American humor is very different. You have to understand many people in as…
/r/seduction18/05/15 01:20 PM
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Hang in there man, I probably liked 200 girls in 1 month, got 8 matches, and met 2 of them.
/r/seduction18/05/15 05:06 AM
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Hang in there man, I probably liked 200 girls in 1 month, got 8 matches, and met 2 of them.
/r/seduction18/05/15 05:06 AM
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Get a hobbie or 2 that will not only make you more interesting but you can use with girls. Billiards/Pool is a great one. If you are not asian try moving to asia, you will be a minority, seen as exotic, chance to perhaps start over, lots of girls curious about foreign boys. Try Shanghai.
/r/seduction17/05/15 01:23 PM
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I just started using tinder the other month and have only been able to meet 2 people so far. I have changed my approach recently so I can't tell u if it's good but I think it will save you time. Get the number and set a date to meet asap. Show ur not interested in text tag/chit chat. You wanna meet in person and learn about each other while doing something. Seems like a lot of girls just use tinder for self esteem or like girl video game when they are board. A lot of matched might go sour quick …
/r/seduction16/05/15 04:38 PM
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Is this school dance at your school with many people you know? If so I think this would be an awful place to begin your game. Your failure in game at a dance could have direct reprucussions on the rest of your high school years. I assume ur shit at dancing so take some lessons until you get comfortable, work on day game instead on girls who are not directly connected to ur social circle.
/r/seduction16/05/15 04:30 PM
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Me [24], her [28]. We were sitting next to each other on my porch at night. When she stopped talking I just went in and kissed her. It didn't work out well, she wasn't reciprocating so it was quite an awkward kiss. We kinda just brushed it off. I felt like shit after. Next day she texts me and says I can't stop thinking about you. We slept together that night and had a 2 year relationship.
/r/seduction14/05/15 04:00 PM
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Take her up on it if you can. If she cancels again then it should be pretty clear to just move on. What was her excuse for cancelling the first time?
/r/seduction14/05/15 03:52 PM
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She is willing to meet you when her friends are around but not alone. Her friends are protection for her, it's like a way she can reject you without actually rejecting you. It sucks. Did you ever question her about ignoring your phone calls when you both knew you had plans? TBH her excuses are pretty fucking lame, in this day and age even if an emergency comes up it takes 5 seconds to tell someone they can't make a date. Sucks but just move on.
/r/seduction13/05/15 08:30 PM
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Chances are she has a boyfriend, or she is just really not interested into you physically. But who knows how much she likes this boyfriend, who knows if she is lying, who knows if she is just saying that because her defense mechanism is going off. You might as well question her answer and fuck around because you have nothing more to lose. BTW never ask a girl if she has a boyfriend, you're giving her an invitation to reject you. You know sometimes girls have fights with their boyfriends, then to…
/r/seduction13/05/15 08:16 PM
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I feel like getting a girl's number from anybody but her is an unattractive move. I would say don't ask HB7 for HB9's number.
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