Hey all, I'm not sure how this will get received here but I just want to throw my thoughts out there. I like that this sub helps plenty of people go be confident and find dates and I'm sure that has helped plenty of people feel more confident about themselves. But I wanted to say that the best way to be sexy to any girl is to find out who you are and own that with confidence. It seems like we're extremely focused on pure sex here and how to manipulate ourselves into according that goal. And thats fine if you just want to get laid. However, if any of you are looking for real love and a serious happy relationship, you'll never find that if you aren't happy with yourself first. If you're constantly pursuing others ideas of what you should be, then you're constantly gonna get let down. Instead, I think a lot of us would benefit from introspection and self improvement. When girls see you focused on yourself, confident in the life you're living, doing what makes you happy, they're gonna be attracted to that. Maybe not every single girl, which is fine, but in the end it just makes it easier to find that one girl who does see you for who you really are. You don't need to please every single girl, just one. I just think a lot of us are so focused on trying to get somebody in their bed that they're losing sight of what really matters, themselves. If you've been putting these "tricks" to use without success or feeling like you can't follow through, then you're probably experiencing the problem I am referring to. So start focusing on yourself and how to make yourself satisfied with life. After that, everything else is easy. Don't place too much importance on the things that don't deserve it!