Hello everyone,

So I am a 23 hetero male and traveling quite a lot on my own. While I travel alone, it's definitely nice to meet new people (whether this are boys or girls).

To be straight forward I am still a virgin, which is no big deal of course, but would like to get better in flirting or seducing girls. Tinder is not working out for me, since I got not many matches (maybe because I am not staying long in cities) and whose I get I got ignored on.

So I don't mind going to parties or raves on my own, since I get to socialise a lot and meet new people, but mostly these are groups of friends. It's quite easy to start a conversation with other guys. But since I am a virgin, my flirting game is really horrible. First of all, it's a hard time to start a conversation with a girl. This my come due to the fact that girls most likely are in groups and I find it hard to start a conversation with one, since I am alone quite often.

Even when I have a talk (which is really uncommon) I get really uncomfortable, getting anxious about what she thinks of me and I am not getting out of my words.

Is it not a bit weird or creepy that I am on my own and wanting to hook up?

How can I start a conversation with a girl? What is a good opener for a conversation? What can I talk about? What are ways to flirt or seduce? Eventually I want to hook up, how to do so?

I am really seeking advice! Anything is welcome! Thanks in advance :)

Edit: some additional information