Seriously need help

lifeson106 · 2017-10-22T22:57:13+00:00

Nothing will happen if you're uptight and putting so much pressure on yourself. Your goal for the party should be to have so much fun, it will be an epic night you will remember for the rest of your life. If you are the life of the party, making everyone laugh and experience great emotions, girls who are into you will present themselves.

Start with some touching and escalate based on her reaction. Start with something innocent like a touch on the shoulder or arm, or "accidentally" brushing your hand against hers. If she's open to it or touches back, escalate to touching her lower back, holding hands, rubbing her neck. If she's open to that, go for the kiss, start rubbing her legs, hold her by the hips. If she's cool with all that, just grab her hand and say come with me, take her to a room and it's on.

The most important part with touching is reading her body language and reactions to find out if she's ok with it. If she isn't, back off immediately. A creep isn't someone who touches a girl, a creep is someone who touches a girl when she's making it clear to him she is not comfortable with it - you don't want to be that guy, so pay attention and back off whenever she's uncomfortable. When I say back off, I don't mean stop touching her entirely, just go back to something she's ok with and work on building comfort with her. Show your personality, make her feel good, but don't be afraid to say something she might not like. As long as it's in good fun, you can say almost anything.

Good luck, friend. Remember, the party is about having fun, as long as that happens, the party was a success. Anything extra is just a bonus.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-10-22T23:00:30+00:00

Not that many girls will just go back to your room and fuck. You really need to understand that women have to trust you first. Since you are a virgin, don't bother trying to pretend you're some sort of playa. Just talk to girls, get to know them and have genuine interest in who they are.

NunoHimself · 2017-10-23T12:30:38+00:00

It starts from the beginning. Adopt a flirtatious dominant vibe. Square up, look her in the eyes, statements of intent, touch her, be close to her. Don't be a clown or her best friend, if you want to fuck her, act as if. Don't you like to touch her? Don't you like to look her in the eyes and be close to her? Don't you look at her and think "Damn, she's attractive, I wanna fuck her"? Ok so do it. This alone will not get her (sometimes it will), you need some leading too. But start with this, you should notice some differences.

aquaboy28 · 2017-10-22T22:17:01+00:00

If drinking is involved, it'll just happen naturally, you both get wasted and then if she's interested, she'll start manifesting IOIs by touching you, putting her leg over yours if you're sitting and just take it from there.

Johndeus1 · 2017-10-22T22:52:19+00:00

Start moving her around with you from the get go, dont go to a room from the first time, just let her be comfortable moving around with you. Start with light friendly touches, tell her she is hot and shit like that. Slowly up your kino game and lead her to a room. It's not all that complicated

Title	Seriously need help
Author	TheFlame97
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	October 22, 2017 9:46 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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