So I want to ask this girl to lunch or coffee or something like that, when we did the do, I lost my hat at one of the houses we did it at, she asked about which one it was, and in response of course I told her. It is now the next day, and as I've said in the first words, I want to take her to coffee and just talk and get to know eachother, how do I go about doing this with the highest possibility of success to get her to agree to go with me on the date? Ps. I know success isn't guaranteed, I just want the best odds