A known concept in seduction, but rarely talked about is sexual hookpoints.

The much more popular “social hookpoint” is when the girl is interested enough in the conversation to stick around. Usually, when she starts asking you questions or when she opens up and talks a bit more. This is the moment you can relax and let the conversation flow without the pressure of “entertaining her”.

As good as this sounds, the social hookpoint is only the first step of a successful approach. It just means you will make a new friend, nothing more, nothing less. This is good if you like to meet people, but the real interaction begins with the sexual hookpoint.

The sexual hookpoint is when she start to consider you as a sexual partner. In short, it is when she allows escalation. This doesn’t mean straight to bed, but it means the gradual process of light escalation has began.

To reach sexual hookpoint you need to well… show intent. You need to indicate that the interaction is man to woman. There is nuance to this, you can be strategic about it, but it usually has to happen within the first 10 minutes of the interaction. Otherwise, it is a long road to the “let’s just be friends”.

Getting girls to chat with you is not enough. Initiating escalation is where the Game is really played. For expanded thoughts, refer to the article here.