New to this place but one of my friends introduced me to this forum. I'm new to reddit entirely actually. But nevertheless, I would like to share some of the knowledge I know about the most complicated creatures on earth.. women..lol

I had the blessing of being an ugly kid in school to a pretty good looking dude in college. So I have experienced both sides of the coin. Being 100% honest though...looks MATTER. But only for the introduction phase. People claim to think they have no shot with women simply because they don't have a chiseled jawline. Like c'mon guys. That's not really being too confident! When I was in high school I was bullied, pushed around, ridiculed and in 9th grade even called the ugliest guy in the school..by chicks! So in 11th grade a decided to make a YouTube channel to relieve my pain and express my creativity. It was successful and it's still up, but not to long word got out that I made good videos around the school and I started getting random attention from the girls. I was still the same me, but they treated me totally different. This is when I realized girls just like what you HAVE. Whether it be looks, money, status, etc.. the reason women are like this is because they want SECURITY. They want FUN. They want a MAN. It's just survival of the fittest. They are hit on all throughout the day, all the time for most of their lives. How would you feel? You must show your INDIVIDUALITY. What makes you different? Why should I bang you? Show them wtf is up

Lets fast forward to freshman year in college. Grew into my looks and now I'm not afraid to say I look like a model. Girls OBVIOUSLY notice me more. But that's JUST IT. Having good looks only puts you through the door (because you have something to offer), good genes. But lets say your good looking and the chick you dig is also good looking.

Good looking women run the fucking world. They can get anything they want. So even if you look like Paul Walker, if you don't have the game to follow through you will still be shut down. That's because society has made to where good looking women are GODS. You see all the commercials that promote beauty? Imagine being a female. That's all you know. That's all you need to know. Society has made girls superficial. So the better looking she is the harder you will have to work for her. You must show her why in the hell she should pick you instead of all her 100,000 other peasants. Whether you have the looks or not you must have something else to bring to the table and it has to be something PHYSICAL. Having a great personality is nice, but there are a million other dudes with great personalities. Why have the average guy with a charisma when she can have a good looking guy with charisma? That's a 2 for 1. Why have the good looking guy with charisma, when she can have an average looking guy with a massive bank account, charisma and let's say... can play the guitar? You need to make up for your losses. Pitying yourself will not help the situation. Go out and invent something, make some fucking dough, be a comedian, be the greatest cook in Thailand...just have something that can interest the lady and keep her attention. Status = security. Looks do NOT equal security. It's just nice to have to a girl. They think long term, men think short term. The key difference between men and women is that men are SUPPOSED to ALWAYS be a MAN. A LEADER. The HUNTER. The BADASS. You're not suppose to dwell and over analyze, that is the ladies' job. This is because women were put on this earth to essentially support the male on his divine path in life. His inner purpose. And as man you can only find your true purpose by being 100% CONFIDENT and SELF-AWARE. This is how legends are made. They are not OF the world, but IN the world. The man must create, protect and lead. The women must support, nurture, and serve. That's just how it goes. If you spend your time acting and thinking like a female (not being in the now, not focused, etc) then why would she want to stay with you? She'll feel lost and unsure. And thus, will probably cheat. Because the strongest survive.

Hope I could shed some perspective! Work with what you have and be a badass. Go with your own flow. Not the world's flow, not her flow. Just yours. This is what makes you special!